THE PHENOMENON OF STRESS I
A Study in Thought
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by
Marius Heuff
Chapter 1
Content
It takes both partners in a situation of conflict to negotiate a settlement.
A negotiated settlement tends to reflect a balance of powers.
A field of "vectors".
The ability to settle for less than was hoped for, or considered fair.
When rivals are nearly evenly matched.
Different conflicts have varying intensities.
When the goal is dominance, rather than conquest or exploitation.
Intense rivalries can only be controled by a superior power.
Forces that play a role in the existence of, and inter-actions between, organisational systems.
A wide-ranging discussion.
We are always dealing with matter and energy, and the forces that relate the various forms of matter-energy to each other.
Radiating and locked-up forms of matter-energy.
A brief review of living and non-living organisational systems.
A complementary conglomerate of socially integrated components enhances the potential for existence.
A strong "centripetal force", or existential need, lies behind the maintenance of such an integrated conglomerate.
A threshold energy-input for inter-actions between, or transformations of, non-living systems.
Inter-actions between radiant and orbital forms of energy.
Living and non-living systems contain the same atomic elements.
Organic combinations or organisations of various elements acquire the quality of "fragility"; not the elements themselves.
Gravitational, mechanical, thermal, chemical, electro-static and electro-magnetic force-fields.
The electro-magnetic spectrum of radiating wave-fronts.
Together, all these disruptive displacement-forces are called "stress".
Stress may come from external or internal force-fields.
It takes both partners in a conflict-situation to come to a negotiated
settlement, while it takes only one partner to decide, that the solution
to a conflict will be in the form of a battle. Yet, even, in a situation,
where a clash of arms is substituted with a negotiated settlement, we see,
almost without exception, that the terms of the agreement reflect a balance
of power, or, the relative strengths of the opposing sides. A negotiated
settlement implies a process of "adjustment"; the acceptance of a situation
that is less than what is desired or hoped-for, and, such an adjustment to
the realities of a situation, is often a painful process, even, if it is
far less painful than suffering a defeat in a violent confrontation.
Therefore, there is always a field of "vectors" at work in any
conflict-situation, even, in situations, where the opposing forces may settle
on a "point of stability", or "resultant", without the use of armed combat.
However, the ability, or the willingness, to appraise, realistically, one's
position, is often lacking, at one side or the other, and, the participant(s)
in a dispute "have to be shown", then, through the outcome of armed conflict,
what their position of strength, or weakness, really is.
It is possible for prudent minds, who still remember the devastations of
a previous war, to forego the actual combat and substitute it with a more
or less voluntary agreement, where a change in the status-quo reflects the
relative strength of the conflicting parties. This adjustment is psychologically
painful, because it involves the art of foregoing the euphoria of a belligerent
rethoric, and, it requires a sober mind. It means, that one is able to settle
for much less than was hoped for, and, frequently, for less than is considered
fair or just.
A negotiated settlement may mean a set-back and a harsher way of life, but,
the great advantage of a negotiated settlement lies in the fact, that it
by-passes the unimaginable horrors of war, and it gives the community, or
an individual, a chance to "learn one's lesson" and build-up one's strength,
so that one will be in a better position to negotiate, next time.
A conflict of interest is most likely to lead to violent skirmishes, if the
combatants are more or less evenly matched. This may sound somewhat
contradictory, and, indeed, it is true, that a scrupulously matched balance
of power is a strong deterrent to either side to engage in armed conflict.
However, if one party is far stronger than the other, there is a sense of
futility and hopelessness on the part of the weaker party to resist domination
by the stronger party, and, we see, then, that it is easier to accept the
necessity to "align" oneself with a much stronger neighbour.
If the parties are more or less equal in strength, and, if neither party
can see the other as "naturally dominant", then, we see the most intense
atmosphere of conflict and strife develop, in particular, if a long sequence
of hostile events has created, not only, an atmosphere of intense rivalry,
but, also, of hatred and contempt. Then, both sides may come to the conclusion,
that the other has to be eliminated for good. Then, the level of competitive
strife has reached such a level of intensity, that each party is literally
fighting for its survival.
Yet, many conflicts never reach this intensity. As we mentioned, the stronger
party in a confrontational situation may be merely trying to bring a weaker
neighbour "in line", and the rewards for the acceptance of dominance are
often substantial. Sure, a measure of contribution is often required, such
as an oath of allegiance, the use of strategic positions, or a levy in taxes
and other contributions, etc., but, on the other hand, such an "aligned party"
will receive protection, privileges, as well as other benefits associated
with being a partner, or, a part of a much larger empire. Here, the
confrontational situation is comparable to the "test-fight" within the
hierarchical order of a small social grouping, while the conflict between
"equals" who despise each other intensely, leads to a situation, where there
is no room for both.
However, such an intense situation of rivalry may still be kept in check
by a superior power, in particular, if both combatants belong to the sphere
of influence of a larger power. The situation is, then, comparable to the
restraints imposed by a leader on two quarreling dependents. A deadly conflict
will eliminate or seriously weaken two or more members of the group, and
the leader will resist, consciously or intuitively, the weakening of "his
group".
Yet, a similar, deadly situation of conflict may arise between the leaders
of two more or less equal but independent or "sovereign" powers. While this
near-balance of power may act, to some extent, as an inhibitory factor,
suppressing the desire to solve the rivalry by armed conflict, the inability
to be actively restrained by a stronger power, may lead to an intense and
irreconcilable conflict-situation. Then, there is a complete polarisation
between two leaders and their groupings, and, the same may happen between
super-powers and their "allies".
We have discussed these mechanisms before, but we have re-iterated them as
an introduction to a much broader and more encompassing subject. We want
to review, here, in a broad perspective, the forces that play a role in the
existence of, and inter-actions between, all sorts of organisational systems,
be they living or non-living systems. The living systems may represent a
single cell, a multi-cellular organism, a single human being, a group of
people in a small social unit, the much larger social unit of a large nation
or federation, or, the tentative organic unit of "mankind as a whole".
The world of inorganic or non-living existence is also made-up of systems
with opposing and inter-acting force-fields. Look at the atom with its nucleus
and the various layers of orbiting electrons. They are bound to the nucleus
by an electro-static force between the negative electrons and the positive
charge of the nucleus. The centrifugal momentum of the orbiting electrons
is counter-acted by the centripetal force of the electro-static attraction
between the cloud of negative electrons and the positively charged
nucleus.
This inorganic system of opposing forces is very similar to the solar system
with its satellites or planets. We see the same system of inter-acting forces
reflected at many levels of inorganic existence. It plays a role in the cluster
of galaxies, spinning around each other as they are orbiting in a "gravitational
hold", and, it is reflected in the spiral arms of the rotating galaxy with
its many billions of stars. We see the same forces at work in the individual
planets and their satellites, the moons.
Even, if we visualise the interior of an atomic nucleus, we see, that matter particles are made-up of rotational complexes of even smaller components, where a strong attractional force, such as between matter and anti-matter, is counter-balancing the extremely energetically rotational complexes and their momenta.
Everywhere we look, we see, that matter, energy and force are related to
each other. We know, now, that a number of force-fields are present whenever
we are dealing with a quantum of energy, and, we know, now, also, that matter
is energy that has been "locked-up" into rotational complexes. Energy can
also exist in a relatively stable state in a "radiant form". Here,
electro-magnetic wave-fronts, with many different frequencies, speed through
space with the characteristic velocity of "light", and, they find in this
"linear" or radiating wave-front a measure of stability. The orbital form
of stability occurs, whenever energy has been locked into rotational complexes,
and, we have discussed, on previous occasions, how we can visualise a series
of "evolutionary" steps, where ever larger complexes of matter-energy particles
are created within various stellar furnaces because of their enormously high
pressures and temperatures.
Similarly, we have described, on many occasions, the essential outlines of
the living organisation. We have seen, that the essence of organic matter
is its fragility under normal terrestial circumstances. This means, that,
organic matter has to be continuously reformed or replaced, just as the out-flow
of water from a rapid has to be replenished continuously by the in-flux of
new or fresh water, before the rapid, as a phenomenon of existence, can find
a measure of stability.
This imagery leads to the pre-cellular or biochemical evolution of organic
or biochemical substances. We have seen, how the association of a large number
of complementary and supplementary substances plays a role in extending the
possibilities of existence, or viability, of such a proto-biochemical or
protoplasmic conglomerate and its participating substances. This natural
experiment with possibilities of organic existence leads, eventually, to
the emergence of the cellular unit with the many capabilities and characteristics
of a living organisation.
The point we want to emphasise, here, is the fact, that the primary living
system of the living organisation, the cell, is also subjected to a large
number of contradictory or opposing forces. The forces that tend to make
these labile substances disappear are balanced by forces that promote the
formation of new substances, or, by preventing the break-down of these labile
substances from taking place. This can be done by replacing, in time, the
energy-gradient that is constantly being lost, or dissipated, by the
"water-fall", or rapid, of the biochemical conglomerate. In addition, we
see, that, many organic substances are only able to maintain their existence
by existing as a conglomerate, and there is, therefore, a strong "centripetal
force", or existential need, at work to maintain this conglomerate as a
whole.
At the same time, all these different substances are competing for the available
energy-gradient, and, there are numerous electrical and mechanical force-fields,
or concentration-gradients, that tend to disperse these substances, because
they are not locked into a crystalline lattice but exist, primarily, in a
fluid or semi-fluid form. The essential difference between an organic and
an inorganic system seems to be the fact, that an organic system needs the
continuous influx of a minimum level of "maintenance energy". The inorganic
unit does not appear to require such an influx, but, neither does it have
the ability to inter-act with the existing terrestial force-fields.
In other words; all possible transformations, such as the formation of chemical
bonds, have already taken place, and, all inorganic matter has already "run-down"
to its lowest possible level of existence. All inter-actions or transformations
require, therefore, a "threshold energy-input", such as heating or thermal
agitation, before these inorganic systems become, again, capable of inter-acting
with a substance in the environment of an existing force-field.
The combustion process is an example of an inter-action that needs, first,
the addition of energy, before the chain-reaction of combustion and the
liberation of heat-energy can take pace. Yet, is it, indeed, correct to assume,
that inorganic matter does not require any "maintenance-energy"? In our highly
speculative essay "Oscillations", we have dwelled on the possibility, that
the force of gravity represents such an influx of "maintenance-energy" from
the ubiquitous "electro-magnetic grid", because the inter-action between
rotating, locked-in energy-quanta and the radiating energy-quanta of the
electro-magnetic grid, may lead to an absorbtion of certain electro-magnetic
frequencies, as well as the dissipation of other frequencies, in the form
of non-specific thermal energies.
We should emphasise, here, that the living organisation is made-up of the
same atomic elements that constitute the world of inorganic existence, and,
the qualities, as well as the peculiarities of the living organisation, are
due to the existence of labile, fragile and reactable molecules, (composed
of ordinary, inorganic atomic elements), which would not have a chance to
maintain themselves or to be formed outside the particular conditions of
the living protoplasm. The specificity of organic existence is found, therefore,
in the fragility of a variety of specific, large molecules, but, not in the
elements that make-up these molecules.
Life, is represented by an organisation of essentially inorganic materials,
and the characteristics of life are due to the specific organisation of a
number of atomic elements, together with the chemical reaction-patterns that
open-up with the existence of a number of large, polymerised molecules that
are labile, fragile and constantly in need of repair.
What do organic and inorganic systems have in common, then? The elements
of the organic systems of life are the same as those of the inorganic world,
but, the molecular complexes are larger, more complex and much more prone
to a break-down. However, these complexes are also subjected to gravitational,
mechanical, electrical and electro-magnetic force-fields, just like all particles
of matter-energy. One of these forces is represented by the force-field of
temperature, or thermal agitation, which "shakes" large complexes as a whole.
This is due to the fact, that matter-energy particles inter-act with radiant,
electro-magnetic wave-forms.
Another part of the electro-magnetic spectrum can "excite" electrons
specifically, especially those that orbit around atomic nuclei in the outer
shells. This, too, is not specific to the organic system, in spite of the
fact that the living systems depend for their maintenance and energy-supplies
upon a cascading flow of excited electrons that have derived their energy,
ultimately, from absorbing photonic energy from solar radiation.
The most energetic segment of the electro-magnetic spectrum, such as cosmic
rays and gamma-radiation, may have all sorts of disruptive effects on the
larger, organic molecules, especially, those carrying the genetic code. This
genetic code is necessary for the proper function of the metabolic machinery,
as well as the reproduction of an entire cellular unit.
Living and non-living systems are also subjected to the same mechanical and
chemical presures of the world of inorganic existence, and, the characteristic
fragility of the living systems means, that these systems are less able to
resist such disruptive forces compared to inorganic systems, which exist
frequently in a crystalline state. In short, there exists a large variety
of force-fields to which all systems of existence, (or particles of matter-energy
in their various organisational forms), are subjected, and, all these forces
are primarily disruptive or entropic in nature. Together, all these disruptive
displacement forces are called "stress".
Stress may come from the outside, or, it may arise from a disruption of the
balance of forces inside a system of organised existence. A stress tends
to disrupt an existing status-quo, or equilibrium, and, we see, then, that
we are dealing with a large and complex field of phenomena. Indeed, the only
way to get a grip on the phenomenon of stress is to refer constantly back
to the essential nature of matter. Even, when discussing the various forms
of stress to which man and his social environment are subjected, we will
have to come back, again and again, to the way these living units have been
built-up. Only, if we understand the essence of the existence of matter-energy,
and, only, if we understand the forces that play a role in the normal functions
of man and his societies, only, then, can we see, clearly, when these
force-fields are getting out of balance and are becoming disruptive.
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Chapter 2
Content
A cascading flow of energy; a "water-fall" of excited electrons.
The essence of the mechanisms of "socialisation", or social integration.
The feature of inter-dependence.
The element of competitive drive is never far from the surface, even in socially integrated forms of existence.
Specialisations in function.
A review of the mechanisms of competitive strife, which are not limited to the living organisation.
Growing and starving rivulets.
The phenomenon of "proto-bioluminescence".
When the river-bed is "soft".
A preferential flow through large channels of energy-dissipation, because they offer less resistance.
The transition from competitive strife to predatory behaviour-patterns.
Why there is no "natural death" for a single cell.
An absence of ageing processes.
Mitotic division spells the end of the existence of a single cell.
The arms-race of nature.
A search for viability.
A successful form of predatorial behaviour.
All animals are predators.
Competitive strife between vegetative life-forms.
The human being is a complex, multi-cellular animal.
We are heir to the developments of competitive strife and predation, but, also, to behavioural flexibility and symbiosis.
Structures of belief, and the perception of reality.
The forces that tend to drive us away from a comfortable "optimum equilibrium".
We have discussed on previous occasions, how the evolution of biochemical substances came-about, and, how the possibilities of existence for each labile substance would increase, if a number of complementary substances existed together. The existence of a number of labile or fragile compounds could be dependent, e.g., on a cascading flow of energy, such as a "water-fall" of excited electrons, and, if a number of substances would form a suitable "stair-case" or path-way for such a flow of excited electrons, the possibilities of existence for each substance would be re-enforced, as long as they stayed together and formed a path-way to dissipate the energy that had been captured through electron excitation.
This phenomenon, where a number of complementary substances find an enhanced
possibility of existence by staying together and maintaining a specific pattern
of spatial relationships, is an important one, because it marks, in essence,
the birth of the mechanism of "socialisation" or social integration. This
principle recurs again and again. We see it emerge in the pre-cellular evolution
of the protoplasmic primordium, and, we see it, again, at the level of the
multi-cellular organism. There, a large number of cells, usually numbering
into the billions, find an enhanced degree of viability by existing together
as a tightly-knit colony, where groups of cells begin to function in a
specialised manner. Then, the cells become specialised in form as well function,
and, they change from a mass of essentially similar and competitive cells,
into groups with a specific function for the organism as a whole.
Each group carries-out a particular function for the entire multi-cellular
colony, and, each grouping becomes then complementary to, and dependent upon,
the others. In this way, the competitive pressures are diminished. Cells
can live much more closely to each other, because they become less competitive
and more inter-dependent. Yet, in many ways, cells remain similar in their
needs, and, the competitive drive is never far from the surface, requiring
constant control, as well as a large number of sophisticated regulatory
mechanisms in order to keep the behaviour of each cell or cell-group within
"socially acceptable limits".
We see the process of social integration again, when multi-cellular organisms
start to form a "socially integrated grouping", where the members begin to
rely upon the mechanisms of specialisation in function and carry-out different
chores or tasks. We have discussed before the many similarities, as well
as differences, in the "socialisation" of the multi-cellular human being,
especially, when compared to the social integration of the cells within the
human body. Here, we want to emphasise the fact, that, at all levels of the
living organisation, we see the emergence of the "social principle" as one
of the solutions to the problems associated with the phenomenon of "competitive
strife".
Let us review, here, in more detail, the phenomenon of competitive strife.
We will see, that this phenomenon antedates the emergence of the living unit,
and, it is, therefore, not a characteristic that is specifically associated
with the living organisation. Then, we will discuss a much more specific
development that represents an off-shoot of the phenomenon of competitive
strife, and is limited to the animal kingdom; the break-through of predatorial
behaviour, as well as "active combat".
The phenomenon of competitive strife is already visible in the way rivulets
of water grow, while dissipating a gravitational energy-gradient in the form
of a flow of water over a gently sloping, muddy or sandy terrain. This imagery
has been elaborated before, and we will only recall the essential features.
In such a situation, we see that, initially, there are innumerable small
rivulets seeking, here and there, the "easiest" path of flow, or, the "path
of least resistance".
Soon, these rivulets begin to scour a larger path-way in the soft terrain,
as small particles of sand are washed away. This scouring of a "river-bed"
results in a lowering of the resistance offered by the sandy terrain to the
flow of water. Consequently, a few of the rivulets become larger, and the
smaller rivulets situated in between the larger rivulets are quickly "starved",
as water tends to follow the path of least resistance. The larger rivulets
are growing bigger and the smaller ones dry-out completely, or, they may
remain as small tributaries to the larger rivulet, which quickly grows, until
it borders on the next large rivulet. This border between them is a "water-shed",
or "divide".
The same imagery visualises the growth of larger, more complex, more efficient,
but, also, more durable and adaptable biochemical rivulets, which evolved
in the protoplasmic primordium. This "soft", changeable, polymerising pool
of proto-biochemical substances is comparable to the soft, muddy bottom of
the rivulets of water, dissipating a gravitational energy-gradient.
The energy-gradient in the protoplasmic primordium is created by the absorption
of photonic energy from the sun, resulting in the excitation of certain electron
orbits. This energy can be given-off again, during the night, as a spectacular
event of "bio-luminescence", or, rather, as the phenomenon of
proto-bioluminescence, because there is no complete living organisation as
yet. However, this energy can also flow along other proto-biochemical substances,
if they happen to form a suitable path-way. Those, which are aligned, attract,
just like a river-bed, a nearly constant flow of energy, and this enhances
the possibility of existence for these fragile, labile, changeable biochemical
components.
Unlike the biochemical substances, the particles forming the river-bed for
a rivulet of water, are not dependent upon this continuous flow of water
through them, but, if we visualise the bottom to be quite soft, we see, that
a "dry" river-bed has a tendency to collapse, as there is no longer any
water-pressure to continue or maintain the scouring processes. In this way,
we can make the analogy with the biochemical river-beds even more
convincing.
The processes that describe the preferential flow of energy through the larger,
less resistant channels, together with the subsequent starvation of the smaller,
less efficient channels, is the essence of the phenomenon of "competitive
strife", and, we see, here, quite clearly, that this phenomenon is not dependent
upon an active, living organism. The behaviour of active combat and predation
is, however, specific for the animal kingdom, and, in this definition we
apply the term "predation" to all attacks against living organisms, and not
just against living animals. The herbivore is, therefore, a "predator" of
the vegetating life-forms.
How did this development occur? We see the processes of predation and active
combat arise already during the stage of uni-cellular life. We can visualise
an intense competition between the freely floating, metabolising and duplicating
cells, in particular, when the environmental conditions began to change and
the protoplasmic primordium started to disappear. We have discussed, before,
how the pressures of growth and reproduction led, quickly, to a condition
of "saturation". Then, the population density of the cells has become maximal.
Any further growth and reproduction is offset by the weakening and death
of a similar number of organisms that have lost-out, for one reason or another,
in the competitive struggle for existence.
Let us remind ourselves, that, in this model of the living organisation,
there is no "natural death", nor is there an essential limit to the age of
a cell. We have seen, on previous occasions, how the mitotic division of
a single cell during the process of multiplication or reproduction, gives
rise to two "new cells", and not, to one young one and one old cell.
Quickly, cells learn to utilise the materials that are being released by
dead and dying cells into the environment. This is the development of the
"saprophytic" way of life, and, it is only a small step away from an act
of predation, which is characterised by the development of substances or
behaviour-patterns that actively speed-up the disintegration of a dying cell.
Soon, a still living but weak cell is "attacked", physically and chemically,
and, the process of death is actively induced by a variety of chemical and
mechanical means.
Now, the arms-race is on. There is a never-ending struggle between the
evolutionary forces, searching for the most viable way of existence. This
search takes two forms, which develop simultaneously in the history of natural
evolution, and, these mechanisms may also evolve simultaneously, or side
by side, in the formation of a specific living organisation. The accent of
the search for survival may lie upon an "aggressive" form of existence, with
the development of substances, mechanical devices or behavioural capabilities
that favour the penetration and destruction of another cell, or, the accent
may fall upon behaviour-patterns, substances or mechanical devices that shield
an organism from such predatorial attacks.
Indeed, the attack upon another living organism in order to use its body
as a means of obtaining building-blocks or energy, is the essence of the
predatorial way of life, and, it is logical, that the "defense" against such
behaviour played a major role in the struggle for survival, by animals and
plants alike.
The predatorial form of behaviour was so successful, that, all those organisms
belonging to the realm of the animals, have become completely dependent upon
the predatorial way of life. This means, that they lost the ability to synthesise
the necessary building-blocks from their inorganic environment with the help
of sun-light; (photosynthesis). Aside from a few notable exceptions, we do
not see a predatorial way of life amongst the plants. There is rarely an
active destruction of other life, but, there is, often, a "sapping" of other
life-forms, where nutrients are siphoned-off in a parasitic way of life.
This means, that the phenomenon of competitive strife remains "alive and
well" in the world of vegetating life-forms. We only have to look around
us, to see, how plants are vying for a place to grow, and, how they are competing
with each other in order to get sufficient sun-light, water and nutrients,
soil and space.
The human being represents a large community of specialised cell-groups,
belonging to the animal kingdom, and, the human life-form has to supply,
therefore, its basic existential needs through a predatory way of life; the
killing of other animals or plants, or, a combination of both. However, man
is also heir to an evolutionary development of "behavioural flexibility",
and, this means, that, parental example, or the example of the adults in
the immediate social environment, as well as personal experiences, play a
large role in shaping the behaviour of the human organism. In addition, the
human being is heir to a process of socialisation within a small nomadic
grouping, as we have discussed on numerous occasions. Finally, the human
species has develped a communally shared "structure of beliefs", which has
an enormous influence upon the way the human being interprets experiences
and sense impressions.
The conscious perception and interpretation of reality influences our behaviour
to a remarkable extent, as we all know, but, the emergence of a belief-structure,
or "behavioural modulator", has also made the human species quite widely
divergent in its behaviour-patterns. This phenomenon of cultural diversity,
based upon diverging structures of beliefs and diverging communal
behaviour-patterns, is quite unique, because no other species shows the same
wide divergence from group to group, without becoming separate species'.
This is a short description of the essence of our existence, which we will
refer to in order to analyse the phenomenon of stress in all its aspects.
Before we can analyse all the factors and forces that tend to put a pressure,
or a stress, on our existence, we have to have a clear idea about the sort
of optimum state or "optimum equilibrium" we are striving towards, either
consciously, or subconsciously. Only, if we have a clear idea of the direction
we, as a living entity, as an individual, or as a socially integrated grouping,
are inclined to follow, only, then, can we understand, describe, and, perhaps,
measure, to some extent, the magnitude or severity of the forces that tend
to drive us away from a comfortable homeostasis or "optimum
equilibrium".
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Chapter 3
Content
The cell; its goals, and the conditions of an optimum equilibrium.
The flow of energy through the cellular protoplasm.
A basic, maintenance-energy to keep the organisation of life intact.
Surplus energies.
A declining efficiency, as the supply of energy becomes more abundant.
A gradual transition between growth and reproduction.
Why there is an essential "instability" in the organisation of life.
An early example of "polarisation".
A continuous cycle of growth and division.
An equilibrium between growth-pressures and counter-acting force-fields from the environment.
A balance between "births and deaths".
A rapid "flow-through" of individuals.
An ideal environment for the forces of natural selection.
A multi-cellular organism has to be built from a single fertilised egg-cell.
The mitotic reconstruction of a multi-cellular embryo.
A reliance upon "the hunt".
The complex search for a possibility to exist.
An optimum equilibrium for human existence.
A tight correlation between mental and physical requirements for the normal development of a youngster.
Limits to the demands for attention and gratification.
Growing-up under relatively stable circumstances.
Learning the principles of common-sense from an early age.
The advantage of "being average".
Let us look, first, at the living organisation of a single cell, and, let
us see, what its goals are, and, what sort of optimum equilibrium is operative
in such a relatively simple organisation, because it seems reasonable to
assume, that the goal-patterns of the much higher evolved life-forms, including
the human being, are still based on these earlier models.
We see, first of all, that a living organisation, such as a single cell,
has a certain flow of energy going through its system. There is, probably,
a "maximum rate of flow", meaning, that, regardless of the abundance of energy
available, a cell can handle, only, "so much". Part of this energy is needed
to fuel the necessary repair mechanisms. This is the minimum, or "basic
maintenance-energy", and, if the available energy would fall below this level,
the living organism will suffer damage, unless it can call on reserves to
supplement the flow of available energy.
The flow of energy above the maintenance level is, in essence, "surplus",
because there is no immediate need for it, but, if we look at the needs of
a species as a whole, we see, that the actual minimum maintenance level required
by a species as a whole, is somewhat higher compared to the individual level
of basic maintenance. This difference is a result of the needs of "reproduction".
There is, therefore, no sharp distinction between the basic level of
energy-requirements and a surplus of energies. There is no difference in
the way basic maintenance-energy and surplus energy are being utilised by
a cell. Energy at the basic maintenance level is used to repair and replenish
structures, and, if the level of energy is somewhat larger, we may assume,
that the level of production and replenishment is also somewhat higher.
It is very likely, that the rate of energy-utilisation becomes somewhat less
efficient, as the supply becomes more abundant, because it seems to be a
general characteristic of living systems, inluding human beings, that their
rate of energy-utilisation drops, as the supply of energy becomes more plentiful.
At the same time, the liberal supply of available energies is utilised for
carrying-out all sorts of activities, including the manufacture of "extra"
protoplasmic constituents As a general principle we can say, therefore, that
an increased energy-supply leads to a build-up of organic or protoplasmic
materials. This, of course, is the essence of the phenomenon of
"growth".
In the single-celled organism, we see a gradual transition between growth
and reproduction; at least, we seem to be dealing, in essence, with the same
mechanisms. As the bulk of a cell increases and many structures become abundant,
a certain "instability" arises, just as we saw this same element of instability
come to the fore, when a social grouping of nomadic individuals became "too
numerous".
At a certain point in this build-up of protoplasmic materials, a sequence
of events is triggered, which sets into motion an orderly division of the
cell. The genetic code of the cell is carefully reproduced and separated.
Each full complement of genetic instructions moves to opposite sides of the
cell (the original and earliest example of "polarisation" in the living system),
and, the cell is, then, pinched in half. It is not clear, as yet, what,
precisely, sets this sequence into motion. We do not know, what sort of balance
is disturbed, but, we are able to state, that a certain "crisis-point" is
reached, where the forces driving the cellular unit apart have become stronger
than those which unify the cell.
However, this crisis follows an orderly sequence of genetic duplication and
cellular division, and, the result of this crisis-situation is, in essence,
a gain in viability. One has become two, and, each newly divided half of
the old cell can absorb a large amount of energy, building-up its protoplasmic
contents, until, once again, a crisis-point is reached in the balance between
opposing forces, and an orderly resolution of the crisis is obtained through
the mechanisms of cellular reproduction, provided, of course, that the proper
instructions for such an orderly resolution of the crisis of imbalance are
available in the genetic code of the cell.
The point we want to emphasise, here, is the fact, that, health, growth and
reproduction, together with a renewal of this cycle of growth and division
in a newly formed cell, constitute one continuous "flow" of events. We do
not see, as yet, the ageing processes that become such a characteristic feature
of the cells of a large, multi-cellular organism. Therefore, there is no
"natural death". The identity of an individual cell is dissolved at the time
of cellular duplication, and, we assume that both cellular halves acquire
an equal amount of older and newly synthesised organic elements, according
to the chances of random distribution.
As long as the available energy-level exceeds the pressures on cellular
existence, the cells continues to grow and multiply, but, it is clear, that
such a logarithmic expansion of the population can not continue indefinitely.
Quite soon, a limit is reached, and the cells absorb all the available energy
in that particular environment. The level of available energy drops sharply.
The rate of growth and reproduction slows-down. The "waste-products" of the
cells start to hamper the metabolic processes, and, we see the development
of an "equilibrium" between the growth-pressure of cells, fueled by the available
energy-level, and, the counter-acting forces of resource scarcities and waste
accumulation in the environment.
The cells of a species have, then, populated a particular ecological niche
to its maximum capacity. Then, a number of cells fall "below the poverty
line". They are getting weaker, and their ability to obtain sufficient energy,
building supplies, oxygen and other requirements, drops even further. Yet,
there are still a number of stronger cells, which live above the poverty
line or the level of minimum requirements. They grow and, eventually, multiply.
The "new-comers", descendents of the strongest cells, replace the weaker
units, as they die-off and remove themselves from the competitive
process.
We can state, therefore, that any species will grow in numbers, until there
is an ecological balance. Then, the number of "births" equal the number of
"deaths". But, it is clear, that, even, the strongest cells in such a saturated
ecological niche do not have an unlimited supply of energy or food. They
have to "work hard", and, if they happen to lose-out in the competitive struggle,
their supplies quickly drop below the minimum levels required, and, they
are in danger of dying. Yet, from an overall point of view, the species is
doing quite well. The rapid succession of generations, together with the
rapid "flow-through" of individuals, means, that descendents are constantly
coming from the strongest segments of the population. As a result, less desirable
traits in the genetic make-up are eventually weeded-out, while the desirable
or successful traits are enhanced.
Because of this constant element of natural selection in the balanced environment of a saturated ecological niche, we see, that all sorts of "innovations", including those of predatory behaviour, find a possibility to exist. These same mechanisms also explain, why some cells find their "strength" in a particular form of adaptation, and, they will continue, then, a line of offspring with a similar, eventually genetically encoded, "specialty", while other cells find a different "advantage", which also becomes a genetically encoded trait. Here, we see the reason for the phenomenon of diversity in cellular life-forms, even before we see the emergence of multi-cellular life.
Our main emphasis, here, is upon the concept, that cellular behaviour, including
the phenomena of differentiation and reproduction can be explained by a balance
of forces. We see here an inter-play of force-fields and circumstances that
enhance growth and reproduction, on the one hand, as well as many factors
and forces that make life more difficult and more competitive.
Let us now look at the multi-cellular organism. The major and most important
difference with the single cells, lies in the fact, that a multi-cellular
organism can not reproduce itself, any longer, by a simple process of growth
and mitotic division. In stead, a multi-cellular organism has to be "re-built"
from the ground up. Each time, a sequence of events has to be set into motion,
transforming a specialised cell, (a fertilised egg-cell), into a complex
colony of cells through the mechanisms of mitotic division. The production
of a colony of cells from a single, fertilised egg-cell is similar to the
multiplication of single cells, but, then, the members of this colony of
embryonic cells begin to differentiate into a variety of organs, developing,
eventually, into a small but nearly complete multi-cellular organism.
We will here not go into details, here. There are many reasons, why the sexual
mode of producing a fertilised, single egg-cell, together with the mitotic
reconstruction of a multi-cellular embryo, came into being. One of the
consequences of this form of reproduction is the remarkable fact, that, the
older organism, after it has contributed to the processes of procreation,
is, in essence, "expendable". The chain of evolutionary continuity is now
taken-over by the younger generations, but, in the behaviourally flexible
animals, the older or parental generations remain important for a prolonged
period of time because of the remarkably long period needed by behaviourally
flexible youngsters to develop into adulthood and obtain adequate
viability.
The evolution of the multi-cellular animal, together with its reliance upon
"the hunt" to fulfill its existential requirements under an obligatory predatory
mode of existence, explain the bodily organisation, its behaviour-patterns,
the special and general sense-organs, as well as the existence of this
"neurological computer"; the brain. Certainly, life and all its manifestations
have become enormously complex, when we look at the way the behaviourally
flexible animals have to secure their individual survival, as well as the
survival of the species, but, the principles that drive or motivate the
multi-cellular, behaviourally flexible life-forms, are not all that different
from the single cells. The ultimate criterium and objective remains "viability",
and, all our bodily and mental capabilities, all our knowledge and learning,
all our beliefs, hopes and dreams, as well as our ever varying associations,
alliances, fights and disputes, are explainable under the general heading
of "the search for a possibility to exist".
Let us look, then, at the human being, and, let us see, what sort of optimum
equilibrium one is looking for, and, how a personal drive for survival fits-in,
or contrasts with, the demands of being a member of one or other social grouping.
The picture is complex, but, I believe that we can unravel it successfully,
and, it is possible to gain a useful insight into the mechanisms of human
behaviour. We can not mention all the goals man may set for himself at the
various stages of his life-cycle, and, we have to resort, therefore, to
generalised principles, which will describe, in outline, what sort of goals
and ambitions man is likely to form.
If we look at a human being during the earlier stages of his or her existence,
we see, that there is no clear-cut long-term planning at all. Youngsters
may take a momentary fancy to this or to that, but, before the onset of puberty,
we do not really see any significant evidence for long-term planning, and,
even, during and after puberty, a fairly large number of people fail to formulate
clear-cut objectives. This leads to a rather amorphous way of life. Such
people do not accomplish much. They are likely to remain in their local
environment and the class they have been born into, and, they drift from
one situation to another, trying to survive without any clear-cut ideas about
the meaning of life, or the nature of the social environment. However, let
us concentrate on the more intelligent and ambitious members of mankind.
These people have the greatest impact upon us, because they are likely to
occupy a position of power and responsibility.
We see, that the intelligent youngster is just as vulnerable as all the others
to the traumas of disappointment and unfair treatment, and, unless the
intelligent youngster has the good fortune to receive intuitively wise guidance,
protection and leadership, it will not be possible to develop talents adequately,
and, even, the most intelligent youngster can become a social cripple or
out-cast, unable to make a contribution to the well-being of man and his
societies.
There is, indeed, a tight correlation between mental and physical requirements
for the "normal" development of a youngster. It means, that the basic
requirements have to be adequately fulfilled, and, that the young individal
has to receive a reasonable measure of support, protection, stimulation and
encouragement, in order to become a healthy, well-integrated and contributory
member of the social environment.
However, the "adequate youngster" will experience, from an early age, that
there are limits to his demands for attention and gratification. The happy
and healthy youngster grows-up in an environment, where the behaviour of
the adults is reasonably stable. There are no serious tensions or frequent
fights; no wildly fluctuating moods or ambivalent attitudes of the parents
towards each other, or, towards their children. No exaggerated affection
one moment, and neglect or abandonment the next.
Healthy youngsters grow in relatively stable circumstances. At least, if
there are troubles and difficulties, these difficulties are caused by the
circumstances in which the community finds itself, and, they are not due
to erratic, egocentric and confused behaviour-patterns of the parents themselves.
Happy youngsters learn the code of common-sense at an early age. They learn,
that they have to share with others; that everyone has the same rights and
privileges, (at least, those, who are socially equals), and, they are able
to accept the fact, that the admonitions and behaviour-patterns of their
parents are as stable and wise as the circumstances permit.
And yet, we know, that ideal parental circumstances do not necessarily provide
the best developed youngsters. In part, we do not know, as yet, what really
constitutes an ideal set of circumstances for the development of youngsters.
It may well be, that the households of those, who occupy a prominent and
exemplary position in the community, do not necessarily qualify as the best,
in spite of the prestige and admiration these parents may enjoy from their
social environment.
It may well be, that the less conspicuous citizens, who are just considered
to be "average" by others, provide a more stable and stimulating environment,
without the subtle tensions and distortions that occur, so easily, in the
more prominent house-holds. There, we see an ever-present danger, that the
offspring from prominent citizens are either "spoiled" by a privileged position,
or, they are put under an additional and essentially unfair stress, as parents
try to avoid spoiling their offspring in an over-zealous effort to correct
an inborn position of advantage and privilege.
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Chapter 4
Content
Rating the environmental stimuli for a youngster.
Why the outcome of a personality development is still difficult to predict.
The "pluri-potentiality" of a young child.
The draw-backs of a poorly balanced personality development.
Finding a place in the social environment.
A widening gap between performance and ambition.
An increase in the complexity of goal-patterns.
The tendency to consolidate during maturity.
When we are "over the hill".
Learning to manage the level of stress we have to cope with.
There are many forms of stress.
When the cerebral computer program still has to be written.
A gradual development of the faculty of conscious awareness.
Unfolding the faculty of speech.
Defining alertness.
Is the infant "less human"?
An infant is exposed to different forms of stress, compared to an older child.
The perception of "pain".
When crying is still a "reflex behaviour-pattern", rather than an expression of "suffering".
The origins of "psychological stress".
All behavioural reactions involving the "software program" of the cerebral computer are psychological in nature.
A helpful summary of the nature of human existence.
The development of the young infant.
The first evidence for psychological mechanisms.
Patterns of recognition.
Defining the experience of "frustration".
We show an essentially "blind" search for as much gratification or attention as we can get.
The need to become aware of limits and limitations.
The "temper tantrum".
Eventually, we will have a much better idea, how to rate the environmental
stimuli in which a child grows-up, and it may, then, be easier to see a clear-cut
correlation between the potentials of a child, and the way these potentials
are unfolding. We are, still, largely in the dark about the really significant
factors that affect a child's development, and, we still are not able to
distinguish the features that are are due to genetic influences from those
that are due to environmental stimuli.
At the present time, we have to be content with the reality that it is difficult
to predict the outcome of a child's development, and, it is equally difficult
to measure its potential at various stages of development. We can only be
surprised, as we see some youngsters fail miserably, who should have made
it because of talent and ideal circumstances, and, vice versa, sometimes,
we see youngsters develop surprisingly well, in spite of serious social and
psychological handicaps.
At the present time, we should merely say, that there must be a number of,
as yet, poorly defined factors and circumstances at work. These factors and
circumstances determine, whether or not a youngster is growing-up into a
socially acceptable adult with a reasonably balanced development of its varied
potentials.
We have discussed the concept that a young child is "pluri-potential". This
means, that there are many more talents than can be fully developed. As a
rule, the more common talents come to the fore in everyone, but, on occasion,
especially, in sensitive and somewhat privileged families, there is a temptation
to develop, at a very early age, an artistic or athletic talent to an exceptional
degree. This may easily lead to an imbalance in the development of the
personality, because the "security" or acceptance of such an individual is,
then, going to rest, solely, on his or her performance in this particular
field of talent, rather than on the development of the peronality as a
whole.
There are clearly disadvantages for too early a development of a highly specific
or specialistic talent. On the other hand, the maximum performance of a talented
youngster, in whatever field, does require a long and arduous training, and,
this long period of training and development must go, at least, to some extent,
at the expense of a more balanced development of the personality.
Extra-ordinarily talented people, especially those, whose talents have been
developed from an early age, are, therefore, "somewhat different" people,
when compared to the rest of us.
Growing-up into an adolescent and adult, means, that we have to find a place
in the social environment, and, if we live in a modern and sophisticated
society, we know, that, many employment opportunities, especially those,
which are financially and intellectually attractive, require a long period
of study and training, where a premium is placed upon the ability to learn
quickly. Yet, as a rule, this emphasis develops gradually during the later
stages of secondary education, and, because of the fact, that a significant
percentage of the class is going to seek further education after high-school,
we do not see, so easily, this "elitist" emphasis on a very high standard
of performance, as we see in those exceptional individuals, who reach for
an artistic or athletic career.
Because we have to learn to stand on our own feet, and find a place, somewhere,
in society, it is logical, that, during the period of adolescence, the gap
in performance and ambition widens between young people. Many young people
seem to be driven, primarily, by their physiological and sexual development,
and, their sphere of ambitions is centered around contacts with the opposite
sex, as well as the need to start building a family, if such contacts have
been "physiologically successful".
It seems fair to say that the period of adolescence is, indeed, characterised
by a remarkable increase in the complexity of goal-patterns, which are still
centered around the major but basic objectives of human existence, such as
the fulfilment of physiological and psychological drives, as well as the
drive to find security and acceptance in society. This means, that there
is a curious mix of goal-patterns. In the affluent, amorphous, self-centered
societies of "the West", we see an emphasis on "personal success" during
the period of schooling and training. The youngsters learn and develop their
talents in order to compete successfully for the highest paying and most
prestigious jobs.
In a social environment that is socially much more aware of the need to develop attitudes and skills that are going to be of benefit to society as a whole, we see a much greater emphasis on the fact, that young people have to make a contribution to society, because they owe their opportunities to develop themselves to the anonymous contributions of countless people in their social environment.
During adulthood, we see a continuation of these trends. If the atmosphere
or work-environment is highly competitive, we see, quickly, how all the surplus
elan-vital is channeled into building-up a career. Soon, however, the energies
needed just to maintain a certain level, are absorbing the entire "output",
and, we see a period of consolidation. Eventually, our performance suffers,
because experience can not continue to compensate for the reluctance to learn
new things and adapt to changing circumstances. A period of decline sets
in, and, the hold upon a position in society is weakened by the impatient
crowding of the younger generations, eager to step into the shoes of the
old guard.
The time when such a change-over to a younger generation becomes likely or
necessary, depends, of course, on the nature of the job. If we look at the
performance of a figure-skater, we see, how a twenty-five year old can be
a "has been", as he or she is replaced from the top spot by a younger contender.
On the other hand, if we look at the world of politics or a Party-hierarchy,
we see, that men in their late sixties or seventies are just beginning to
reach the "top spot", and, anyone younger is not really in contention.
The goals of people reflect, therefore, the stage in their life-cycle, as
well as the type of career and position they occupy in society. This should
give us a framework for the discussion of the various forces and drives to
which we are subjected, as well as the adjustments and attitudes of resignation,
which play such an important role in the management of "stress". Let us remember,
that the level of stress includes, not only, the level of "conscious stress",
but, it represents the sum-total of the physiological, psychological and
social forms of stress that make their influence felt.
Let us start the discussion at the beginning of our life-cycle. The newborn
infant is merely a "bundle of reflexes", as we have explained on previous
occasions. The central nervous system is largely incomplete, and, many important
systems are not functioning as yet, but, all the reflexes needed to survive
are there. The infant will fall contently asleep, when dry, warm and well-fed,
but, if something is amiss, it can only cry indiscriminately to indicate
that something is wrong. There is no evidence that the child recognises,
or "knows", anything, and, it seems quite justified to say, that the cerebral
"computer program" still has to be "written". As a matter of fact, the cerebral
"hardware", or the neurological path-ways, are not ready, as yet, to receive
all the neural impulses, representing the numerous sense impressions an
individual is subjected to.
Therefore, it seems safe to say, that there is no "consciousness" in the
way a somewhat older child begins to become consciously aware of some sense
impressions, as it starts to recognise familiar faces and expresses the
recognition of a comforting familiarity with a smile.
This specifically human form of conscious awareness develops slowly, and,
it is paralleled by the development of speech. The absence of consciousness,
or, rather, the absence of "verbalisable consciousness", is sometimes confused
with the concept of "alertness". Alertness means, that an organism is ready
to receive a large number of sense-impressions from the environment, and,
it means, that such an organism will use all its faculties to arrive at the
best possible response. The state of alertness is, therefore, not dependent
upon the faculty of verbalisable consciousness. In the human being, the state
of alertness is, indeed, nearly always associated with the ability to speak.
If such is not the case, we are dealing with an abnormality.
The fact that conscious awareness develops only gradually, probably beginning,
very slowly, within a few weeks after birth, does not mean, that the infant
is "less human" than an older child or an adult. All the potentials for becoming
a normal human being are there, from the moment of conception. We should
also emphasise the fact, that it is erroneous to believe, that human life
begins at the time of conception, because the sex cells are alive, and human,
even, before they form a fertilised egg-cell. However, from this moment on,
the fertilised egg-cell acquires the potental to develop into a full-fledged
member of the species.
However, the absence of all forms of psychological awareness, means, that
an infant is subjected to different forms of stress, compared to the older
child. The infant is subjected to a variety of physical and physiological
forms of stress, and, it can be uncomfortable, when it is wet, cold or too
hot. There is good evidence to assume, that it feels pain, and, that the
path-ways for the perception of pain are fully operational at the time of
birth. Nevertheless, our perception of pain is so intricately inter-woven
with all sorts of psychological factors, (such as the expectation of experiencing
pain, expressed as a profound anxiety, tension, and, perhaps, a heightened
sensitivity to pain), that it is difficult for us to imagine what sort of
pain sensation is felt by an infant. There does not seem to be a great deal
of difference between being uncomfortable and having pain. Once a certain
threshold has been reached, the infant will start to cry, and it seems, that
it can just as easily start to cry at the top of its voice for what seems
to be a rather minor nuissance, compared to something that would definitely
be experienced as pain by adults.
It seems, that the crying of an infant is a reflex type of behaviour, that
is either switched on or off. If it is switched on, for one reason or another,
it may easily reach a maximum intensity, and, the child does not stop immediately
after the source of pain or irritation has been removed. It often cries,
until it has exhausted itself and falls asleep. Besides, a crying spell can
also be elicited by the mere fact that it is not picked-up, especially, if
a child has "learned", that it can "demand" being picked-up by crying
loudly.
Crying by an infant, is, therefore, a rather crude and undifferentiated reflex
response to some sort of discomfort or stress, and, the first psychological
functions and psychological forms of stress occur, whenever an infant is
being "frustrated" in its anticipation of being picked-up. Therefore, it
seems fair to state, that, during the first few weeks of its life, the newly
born infant is only subjected to uncomfortable or painful stimuli of a physical
nature, but, as soon as it has learned its first mechanisms of anticipation,
e.g., to be picked up when it cries, we see the beginnings of "psychological
stress".
Let us first define, however, the area of psychological mechanisms, so that
we can differentiate between uncomfortable and harmful stimuli of a physical
nature, and those perceptions of pain or discomfort, which are, at least,
in part, due to acquired or learned mechanisms of anticipation.
Psychological mechanisms are behavioural responses that are based on learned
or acquired patterns of anticipation, and, these responses are, therefore,
dependent upon the content of our experiences or memory-banks. In other words;
whatever memory-traces or experiences have been acquired during the existence
of an individual, form, together, the "content", or "software program", for
the cerebral computer. Perhaps, it is reasonable to say, that all behavioural
reactions that involve the software program of the cerebral computer, are
psychological in nature, even, if a lot of this software program does not
exist as conscious awarenesses, but, has settled into the zone of the
sub-conscious.
In this definition, we see, that, all behavioural reactions due to genetically
patterned path-ways, are not psychological in nature, but physical or
physiological behaviour-patterns that are, largely, of a reflex nature. Some
of these reflexes are so complex, that they are better defined as inborn
stereotyped behaviour-patterns.
However, let us not forget; as we grow older, stimuli, that were originally
processed along pre-existing, genetically encoded pathways, will also activate
a large variety of sensations, memories, anticipations or expectations, and,
this alters, profoundly, the original response-pattern. Therefore, almost
everything we do and react to in life, has an important psychological component,
once we have developed a program of memories, experiences, beliefs and
anticipations for our cerebral computer.
This summary, I believe, will be helpful in analysing what is happening in
an infant. As long as there is no cerebral computer program, we see a variety
of physiological reflexes at work, which may or may not be associated with
a physiological sensation of pain or discomfort. However, even, these reflexes
are incomplete, because, not only is the cerebral computer program absent,
but, the computer hardware, so to speak (the neurological path-ways), are
still being built, in particular, those path-ways, which will mediate the
finely coordinated movements of the body musculature as the infant grows
into a youngster.
The infantile crying response is, therefore, a true reflex. It does not have
any shades of expression or mechanisms of control. Initially, it is only
activated by physical stimuli, but, as soon as the infant develops the ability
to recognise a familiar face, we see, that the first phase of cerebral
programming has begun. After a few weeks, the continuous stream of sensory
stimuli to which the infant is exposed ever since birth, (and, perhaps, to
some extent, prior to birth), has led to the ability to differentiate between
a familiar face, a familiar way of being picked-up, and, a face, a voice,
or a behaviour-pattern that is "strange". This differentiation has important
consequencs, because the recognition of a familiar "event", the appearance
of face, voice, hands and movements, is now being associated with something
pleasant, and, one of the first ways to express well-being and a pleasant
anticipation, is the smile; the looking-around in an apparent state of
contentness; the absence of crying, etc.
In a way, we are dealing, here, with one of the first psychological mechanisms,
and, this form of learning has all the characteristics of a conditioned reflex.
In a conditioned reflex, there is no fixed pathway between a stimulus and
a response, but a non-specific stimulus, (here, the act of being picked-up),
leads consistently to a pleasant experience; being fed, being changed, fondled,
etc.
Soon, the infant "recognises" the beginning of this pleasant sequence of
events, and, the recognition of the initial stages of a particular sequence,
leads to a strong, if "automatic", anticipation of the rest of this sequence.
Therefore, every time the infant sees a familiar face, as well as other familiar
attributes, it expects the whole sequence to unfold itself. Every time it
experiences indeed the entire sequence, this element of expectation has been
re-enforced, and, therefore, it becomes increasingly likely, that the occasional
non-occurrence of this sequence of events, leads to a strong enough sensation
of "frustration" to trigger the crying reflex. This crying reflex is enhanced,
if the infant experiences that this "act" of crying will bring-about, belatedly,
the desired and expected sequence.
Frustration is the blockage of an expected sequence of events, leading to
a pleasant goal; a satisfaction or gratification of some sort. If an unpleasant
sequence of events is blocked, we experience, of course, a "sigh of relief",
as the mounting tensions of anxiety are suddenly released, or, at least,
"eased".
There is good evidence to believe, that the human infant will "blindly" seek
to get as much gratification or attention as it can get, and, we have seen,
that, picking-up the child every time it cries, re-enforces its expectations,
but, it also strengthens the feelings of frustration, if its expectations
are not being fulfilled.
"Is "frustration" not a form of stress, and should we not behave in such
a way, that our youngsters experience as little as possible this ugly stress
of frustration?", you may ask. This is a legitimate question, because we
have good reasons to believe, that strong frustrations hamper the growth
of the personality, and may lead to neurotic behaviour-patterns. Let us analyse
this question in detail, because we are dealing, here, with a fundamentally
important attitude towards the up-bringing of the younger generation. We
should also discuss the various aspects of "frustration" and define "neurotic
behaviour".
Yes, it is true, that frustration is a form of "blockage", where expectations
are not met by the experience of reality, but, I am convinced that it is
beneficial to experience, at least, a measure of "frustration", especially,
during our earlier years. Just as the maximum possible level of beneficial
stimuli is far from beneficial to an individual organism, so is a constant
or maximum level of psychological gratification, together with the fulfilment
of all expectations, far from beneficial for the development of our
personality.
Just because the human being is a "flexible animal", it means, that our
behaviour-patterns have to be shaped by experience. We know, how important
the input of personal experiences is for an adequate shaping of our
response-patterns. If a young child or infant would experience a constant,
or, nearly constant gratification of its wishes and demands, it develops,
quickly, a remarkable dependence upon such a high level of gratification.
This means, that, any attempt to break this habit of relying upon instant
gratification, will be felt as an increasingly severe form of stress, because
the infant or child has come to rely upon it to such a large extent. Quickly,
we reach the stage, that such a child will react with the maximum possible
resistance to such a "blockage" of its expectations, and, it will throw a
"temper tantrum". This is a completely uninhibited and all-out effort to
gain access to the expected gratification, even, if it is such a simple act
as being picked-up or given attention.
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Chapter 5
Content
The behaviour of sensible parents.
Establishing a stable and comforting routine.
An atmosphere of steadfastness, reliability and security.
The attitude of "over-attention".
Mechanisms of "natural wisdom".
The detrimental consequences of "poverty".
The need for a constant stream of mental stimuli.
The difference between "stimulating" and "stressful" conditions.
A look at the best conditions for developing the potential of behavioural flexibility.
When social limits of tolerance are "soft".
The ability to recognise and avoid obstacles.
When the social environment is "too restrictive".
A vague and elusive balance between stimulating and restraining factors.
A review of the development of the human personality.
When the demands and expectations of the social environment become a burden.
When people "soar" in their career.
The average personality.
Great Expectations.
We are fortunate, when we can enter adolescence with a large number of dreams and expectations.
The final "crystallisation" of the personality.
Remaining flexible for as long as we can.
We need to learn, from an early age, that there is a limit to the fulfillment
of our demands, and, this is the reason, why the natural common-sense of
concerned but busy parents, is such a valuable asset. The common-sense parents
will certainly check if their baby is allright, but if nothing is amiss,
they will let it cry, untill it has exhausted itself and falls asleep. Yet,
by making sure, that all its needs are provided for and that it gets fondled,
stimulated and fed at regular or near-regular intervals, the sensible parents
provide a stable and comforting routine for the infant.
We appreciate, still, only vaguely, how important such a regular, comforting
and well-balanced routine is for the growing personality. In stead of learning,
that all its wishes are immediately satisfied, the child gets used to a rythm
of care an attention. In stead of relying on immediate gratification, it
learns, that it may not get satisfaction, now, but, it will surely get attention
later, and, the whole "outlook" or atmosphere is one of steadiness, reliability
and security. This shift away from immediate gratification towards a steady
routine, gives the child a sense of steadfastness, as well as an appreciation
for the fact, that the environment will tolerate its wishes and demands,
only, up to a certain point.
We see, here, the outline, or the "range", of tolerated behaviour, where
a child comes-up against "limitations". The acceptance of a range of tolerance
within which acceptable behaviour has to stay, makes the youngster willing
to accept other limitations as well, such as the need to share affection
and attention, food, or toys, etc. In short, I am convinced, that this
common-sense attitude of parents, who, intuitively or pragmatically, recognise
the simple fact that they can not spend all their time with one child,
introduces, automatically, one of the most important "socialising" experiences
for the young individual. This experience is, probably, one of the main factors,
determining, whether or not a child will become "socially acceptable".
If an attitude of over-attention, or "spoiling", is detrimental for the future
social integration of a child, so is the attitude of ambivalence or negligence
even more harmful to its developing personality. We are becoming more aware
of the fact, that a certain routine of care, stimulation, fondling and attention
is crucially important to avoid an excessive arousal of defensive mechanisms,
and, these insights were, at least in part, responsible for the fact, that
it was thought wise to give a child as much attention as possible. Now, we
know, that the sensible balance adopted by "natural" parental behaviour,
is, in essence, the optimum level of care and attention a child can
receive.
Certainly, if a family is "too large", and, if the parents are swamped with chores, or live in a state of poverty and chronic stress, the level of care may easily drop below the minimum requirements, and, the children may become somewhat neglected. This may not come to the fore as "behaviour problems", however, because, even, in poor and over-crowded families, the level of stimulation and the bonds of solidarity are often strong enough to make such families well-integrated social units. However, in view of what can be obtained in the development of human potential and social acceptability, an up-bringing in poverty may act as a hindrance for later efforts to fulfill certain potentials to the maximum, or, to advance beyond the social stratum of one's class. However, the "fault" does not lie, here, with the techniques of parental up-bringing, but, on the conditions of poverty under which large numbers of people, (many hundreds of millions of people, all over the world), have to live and bring-up their offspring.
The point we want to emphasise, here, is the fact, that "stress" is nothing
more, and nothing less, than the common denominator of all those stimuli,
be they internal or external, which pose a "challenge" to the individual
and his society, and, which drive an individual or a community away from
a comfortable equilibrium.
Too much of any type of stimulus, is harmful, but, a mild challenge or stress
is needed to keep our faculties alive and well, because all our faculties
have developed under the stimulus of stress; nl., the struggle for survival.
It should not surprise us, therefore, that we also require a mental challenge,
because mental stimuli are, in essence, reacted-to in the same manner. In
essence, mental stimuli are the same as the stimuli we react to by "physical",
reflex or subconscious mechanisms. Strongly stressful stimuli are highly
uncomfortable, painful, or, even, life-threatening, be they physical or
psychological in nature, but, a mild dose of stressful stimuli for body and
mind, is needed to develop into a healthy, flexible and socially well-integrated
individual.
Let us conclude our discussion about the experiences of stress at an early
age, by showing, that the establishment of a comforting routine and the setting
of limits to wants and desires, provide, not only, the foundation for socially
integrated behaviour, but, the experience of limitations is also essential
for developing the faculty of behavioural flexibility. Just as a flexible
animal in nature learns to recognise the obstacles and conditions it can
not change, so does the human being need a series of experiences, where it
learns, that it has come-up against "limits". If human beings experience
from an early age, that the "social limits of tolerance" are "soft", and,
that these limits can be "pushed aside" by force, e.g., by whining, persistent
nagging, or the throwing of a temper-tantrum, then, a child does not learn
to use its potential for flexible behaviour-patterns. Just as an animal would
not be very viable, if it kept hitting itself against obstacles, so is the
human being, who tries, constantly, to push its way past the limits set by
others, not a very flexible or intelligent personality.
As soon as such a "handicapped child" has to maintain him- or herself in
a much larger social environment that falls outside the "soft" family
environment, he or she has to learn, the hard way, that a large number of
its behaviour-patterns are not acceptable. Therefore, socially acceptable
and intelligent behaviour is closely related to the ability to recognise
obstacles, and, to avoid or circumvent them, rather than to attack, stubbornly
and persistently, such obstacles. Clearly, the child, who learns from a young
age to be pliable, to respect authority, to fit into a mold of socially
acceptable behaviour, has an advantage over a child that has not learned
to do so.
We may also see the other extreme. Some children grow-up in such a rigid
and severe environment, that they do not dare to show any initiative, because
they are afraid to be rebuffed, reprimanded or laughed at, but, in our
permissive, chaotic and socially fragmented societies, such a parental attitude
is exceptional, and, it is limited to isolated religious groupings and sects
that stand outside the main-stream of life.
As always, the optimum level of "constraint" is vague and difficult to delineate
with precision, but, we can state, in general terms, the objectives that
should be sought, or looked for, when rearing children. There should be a
careful, comforting and adequate routine of care, stimulation, protection
and affection, which allows a relatively care-free, happy, exciting and varied
childhood. On the one hand, the child is brought-up to respect authority,
and, to recognise the need for authority, but, it is also encouraged to develop
its initiatives and talents, as long as there is a good understanding of
the reasons, why certain activities and inclinations may come into conflict
with the wishes and desires of other people.
Within these limitations, it should not be too difficult to bring-up children in such a way, that they are flexible, spontaneous, energetic and full of initiative, and, yet, socially concerned, respectful of auhority, and without strong feelings of resentment or alienation. True, in actual practice, it is difficult to judge, whether or not a paticular mode of bringing-up children has been successful. Our concepts and ideas are still so confused and contradictory, that it seems far wiser to rely upon the natural common-sense and intuitive wisdom of healthy and well-integrated parents, and, let them bring-up their children without any preconceptions.
Let us follow a child through childhood, adolescence and into early adulthood,
and, let us review, in general outlines, the many levels or forms of stress
that may occur. The world of contact is constantly being enlarged, and, the
individual feels the pressures of physical and psychological maturation,
as well as the need to find a place in society. One of the main features
of human existence is a constant stream of sense-impressions that have to
be categorised, classified and digested. We develop, therefore, throughout
childhood and adolescence, an ever growing base of experiences and memories,
and, slowly, a complicated structure of beliefs develops, which lets us orden
all these awarenesses and experiences into a framework of coherent
relationships.
At the same time, we experience, constantly, the drives of our own existence.
We need attention and affection, or, even love and prestige from our social
environment. We need to do well. We have to respond to the demands and
expectations from the social environment, because we need an adequate level
of performance in order to feel wanted and accepted by our social
environment.
However, sometimes, the demands and expectations from the social environment
become a burden, and, they may interfere, to some extent, with the way we
want to live, and, we may want to withdraw from society, as soon as we get
a chance. This may lead to disappointment and incomprehension from the people
around us, but, in our affluent societies, people soon forget, as each one
of us is absorbed by a constant flow of events and happenings. Some people
adapt quite well to the demands of society, and, they place an increasing
reliance upon the seal of public approval, as they soar in their career as
a politician, a popular artist, or, some other career that involves a nearly
constant inter-action with "the public".
Most of us remain, somewhere, in between. We are not completely absorbed
by the wishes or trends of public opinion, but, neither, have we completely
withdrawn from society, because, after all, we have a living to make, a family
to feed, bills to pay. We have contacts with our society through the work
environment, as well as our friends and acquaintances, but, we also have
a shell of privacy, and, we pursue a way of life, and, we adopt a belief
or attitude that is not completely in line with fashionable public opinion,
but is more likely to be identified with a particular grouping within the
larger social environment.
We have hinted on the ultimate objective of adequate social integration as
an adult, because the tensions and feelings of uncertainty we experience
as a child or adolescent, are, to a large extent, due to the fact, that our
beliefs and attitudes are still "being formed". We are still flexible, and,
we can still choose what we want to become. Because our beliefs and attitudes,
as well as our role in society, have not crystallised as yet, we are still
forming long-term goal-patterns. Logically, our expectations are numerous,
and, they often take the form of "great dreams", but, high expectations lead,
invariably, to severe disappointments, and, it is probably fair to say, that
we all have to adjust our expectations throughout life.
We are fortunate, indeed, if we are able to enter adolescence with a large
number of dreams and expectations, and, it takes a while to learn, which
expectations can be realised, and, which turn-out to be irrealistic and
untenable. Again others fade in importance, as soon as they come nearer to
fruition.
A persistent and complex pattern of goals that remain a viable and realistic
objective, delays the final "crystallisation" of a personality, as well as
his or her position in society. Indeed, people, who are fortunate enough
to be able to remain dreamers and ambitious goal-climbers for a long period
of time, remain somewhat "child-like", or, at least, they remain somewhat
adolescent in the eyes of those, who have lost, at a much earlier age, their
range of options.
Certainly, people, who become socially well-integrated at an early age, often
"crystallise" early. This is primarily due to the fact, that they reach at
an early stage in life a "dead-end" position, from where it is difficult,
or, even, impossible to "escape" or advance. If such people look with a certain
disdain on the immaturity of those, who can still dream of reaching all sorts
of goals, we can also detect an element of envy, as well as a vague recognition
of the fact, that, their own lack of ambition and perseverence is, at least,
partly, responsible for the limited social and professional mobility they
find themselves in.
Let us come back to the fact, that, throughout childhood, adolescence and,
even, into early adulthood, most members of society are flexible enough that
they can still change their conditions of existence. They can still change
jobs, the line of work, or the way they live. This creates, necessarily,
a flexible and rather extensive pattern of expectations, and, these expectations
are all subject, at least, potentially, to the stress of frustration and
disappointment, but, they may also serve as a valuable rallying point to
organise our lives and put some self-discipline into our life-style.
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The "neurotic blockage".
Later, we may understand the reasons, why we failed.
When collective frustrations, or "taboos", become "the norm".
The neurotic suppression of unpleasant experiences.
Delusions and obsessions.
We all vary in the way we interpret reality.
Vague boundaries between normal and abnormal perceptions of reality.
A reality perception that "does not make sense" to the social surroundings, is, by definition, "mentally diseased".
The perception of reality is a complex phenomenon.
The function of a persistent "bias" in the interpretation of our sense impressions.
When there is a break-down in the perception of reality.
The phenomenon of a psychological "rejection".
Ambivalent attitudes towards handicapped off-spring.
The concepts of individual and social health, normality and disease touch upon each other in a confusing manner.
Learning to live with disappointments.
A continuous exposure to stressful conditions.
We become more "seasoned", as we get older.
Avoiding a cynical and socially destructive attitude.
The fine line between realism and opportunism.
Retaining a quiet faith in the forces of "goodness".
A psychological shield of ambitions and long-term expectations.
The possibilities for "becoming" are falling-away, one by one.
When we are becoming irrelevant to our social surroundings.
How to regain a measure of productivity.
The limitations of a strenuous life-style.
The many forms of chronic stress in a modern, affluent society.
Because the human being is subjected to a number of drives, and will always
experience some limitations to his desire for gratification, it is unavoidable,
that we all experience frustrations from time to time. Most of us are able
to "shake off" such experiences, and, we recognise, that it is justified
that we can not have everything we want. Then, the frustration subsides,
because we are able to control our instinctive drives.
However, it may be, that we do not understand, why a particular ambition
or goal has been "blocked", and, we may try harder and harder to achieve
something, especially, if the goal is seen as a socially desirable
accomplishment. Then, the frustration may become deep, and, we may develop
an exaggerated feeling of awe or mystique for the goal that has eluded us
from an early age. For a long time, we may not understand the reason for
our failure, and, we remain somewhat nostalgic about a particular skill,
position or profession.
Later, we may understand the reasons, why we failed, and, we may acknowledge
the fact, that we did not have the insight to solve the problems that laid
behind the obstacles, or, we acknowledge, that we did not have sufficient
discipline and will-power to listen to the advise of others, or, we may realise,
that our goals were somewhat shallow, etc. Then, we come to grips with this
frustration, and it slowly subsides.
If we talk about the social limitations to certain forms of behaviour, we
see, that the acceptance of this sort of "frustration" becomes "normal".
Everyone will react more or less in the same way, if a "taboo" is violated,
and, the behaviour of restraint, together with the emotions when a particular
norm has been breached, become characteristic of a particular culture or
social environment. However, it is possible, especially, in socially chaotic
or amorphous environments, to experience widely different guidelines from
family to family, or, more commonly, from one sub-culture to the next.
Sometimes, a youngster has a particularly unpleasant experience, perhaps,
of a sexual or sex-related nature, and, this experience may not be "digested"
properly. Because of the painful confusion associated with the memory of
such an experience, it is "deeply suppressed" into the subconscious, because,
this is the only way the individual knows how to handle it. It is like sweeping
a piece of dirt under the rug, whenever one does not have the energy or
capability to remove it completely. Just like a piece of dirt swept under
the rug, a suppressed experience is easily "forgotten", but, any related
or analogous experience may bring this experience again to the fore, and,
the similar or analogous experience will evoke strong and confusing emotions,
because an individual is, often, not aware, what is happening psychologically.
Such a behavioural reaction is felt as strange or abnormal by the social
environment, bcause this behaviour-pattern is not shared by others. Here,
we see the essence of a "neurotic suppression".
It is also possible, that certain causes and their effects are abnormally
emphasised. There are many ways in which our reality perceptions can start
to deviate significantly from an "accepted norm". For example, we may consider
certain events to have a special or exaggerated significance; at least, the
interpretation of certain events may not be generally accepted by the people
around us. We are, then, suffering from delusions, or obsessions, but, if
the community as a whole becomes "deluded or obsessed", e.g., with the idea,
that their enemies are going to start a war, we see, that this behaviour
is considered "normal", or, even, "patriotic", in spite of the fact, that
the collective behaviour of the entire social environment may be judged as
"obsessive" by an outsider.
Sometimes, it is, not only, the interpretation that begins to deviate from
accepted norms, but, the perception of the sense impressions themselves becomes
altered. If the alteration of the perception of reality is not merely a matter
of interpretation, but, if it involves directly a statement of fact, such
as hearing or seeing something that can not be heard or seen by others, we
are dealing with a severe type of mental illness.
However, there are many variations in the abnormalities of the perception
of reality, and, we should remember, first of all, that we all vary, to some
extent, in the way we see reality and interpret the meaning of events or
sense impressions. However, most of us are quite well aware of the difference
between a "certainty", which depends, to a large extent, on the fact, that
the people in our environment agree with a certain belief or interpretation,
and, this large and shadowy sphere of experiences, where certainty slides
into hypothesis and speculation. Indeed, the boundaries between normal and
abnormal perceptions of reality are vague, but, as a rule, we can say, that
people should be able to agree amongst themselves about the routine, daily
realities, and they should be able to communicate sensibly about these realities,
giving an aura of "normality" to the behaviour-patterns of the members of
a social environment.
If we try to discuss with each other the more fundamental aspects of a perception
of reality, we see, that, many differences of a religious, philosophical
or political nature come to the fore, in spite of the fact, that people will
be able to consider each other as "normal" members of society. Only, if an
interpretation becomes highly individualistic, utterly emotional, and not
substantiated by logic or agreement within a limited grouping, will we consider
such a reality perception to be a sign of a mental illness.
Accepted differences in reality perception range all the way from prejudices,
(which we all suffer from, to some extent), to the more severe delusions
and obsessive-compulsive behaviour-patterns that are shared by the community
we belong to, and, which determine the definition of normality. However,
a reality perception that "does not make sense" to the social surroundings
of an individual, is, in essence, mentally diseased, in spite of the fact,
that the reference of normality, (the social grouping), may be a somewhat
arbitrary choice.
We know, now, that the perception of reality is a complex phenomenon, depending
upon the "hardware" of the cerebral computer, the state of physical and mental
health of an individual and the social environment, as well as on the accumulated
content of memories and experiences. Sometimes, we see, clearly, how traumatic
or unfortunate experiences have created an abnormal bias in someone's behaviour,
and, if we can fully identify with such a bias, we will consider the occurrence
of certain phobias, nightmares, excited mental states, obsessions and delusion,
as "understandable". Then, we are usually correct to consider the "bias",
or the deviation of the normal behaviour pattern, to be psychological in
nature and we are fairly certain, that the behavioural alteration is due
to a specific sensory input.
On other occasions, the "hardware", (the chemical, physiological or anatomical
features of the brain over which the flow of sense impressions is taking
place), has been altered by a drug, a toxin, an injury, or a disease process.
We see, then, a generalised and often debilitating defect in the perception
of reality.
Certainly, it is possible, that severe disturbances in the perception of
reality are due to purely "psychological" factors, or "factors of input",
such as traumatic experiences, but, it is unlikely, that traumatic experiences
alone can explain a total break-down in the perception of reality. Often,
there is a propensity or a tendency to be withdrawn, and, such an individual
takes, for one reason or another, refuge into a world of fantasy and
day-dreaming. Undoubtedly, we see, almost always, a combination of factors
at work. Some children are lagging behind, physically, mentally, or both,
and, as a result, they are prone to become somewhat neglected, or, even,
rejected, especially, in a busy, competitive and "natural" environment.
Rejection is a common occurrence, and, it has a strong biological basis or
drive, because we see, throughout nature, including the behaviour of the
higher mammals, that newly born members of a litter that are somewhat "behind",
are neglected to the point that they do not survive. This solves the problem
of the weakling who is a burden to his social environment, and, it solves
the problems of over-population, as the parents are not going to look after
more offspring than they can handle.
The strongly developed sense of protection in the human species, leads to
the survival of most "weaker infants", including those, who are mentally
or physically handicapped. Certainly, this is a natural result of a valuable
social instinct, but, we should not be blind for the consequences, and, we
should not be surprised to see, that parents have strongly ambivalent attitudes
towards offspring that is, somehow, not quite "up to par".
It is not surprising, therefore, that youngsters do not receive scrupulously
equal attention, and, it is logical, that some grow-up in a state of mild
neglect. Because these youngsters feel chronically the stress that they can
not quite compete on equal terms with other members in their social environment,
there is a tendency to become withdrawn. These youngsters begin to live in
a world of fantasy, where primary gratifications are easily obtained by erotic
fantasies and self-stimulation. Such children are prone to slide into a world
of their own, where it becomes increasingly difficult to make contact with
"the real world". Then, the world of the mentally ill and the social outcast,
the drug-addict and the criminal, is just around the corner.
Certainly, this is not the only course of events that leads to mental illness,
and, there are numerous instances, where an apparently normal and well cared-for
youngster becomes "abnormal" and ends-up a mental cripple. As we learn more
about the numerous factors that play a role in the definition of normality,
as well as in the mechanisms of competitive existence, we will have a better
grip on the reality of psychological existence, where individual and social
health, as well as the concepts of normality and disease, touch upon each
other in a confusing, and, as yet, poorly organised manner.
Let us leave the field of mental illness and return to the world of the growing
youngster. We have seen, that this world remains difficult and complex for
a long time, as youngsters develop, learn, adapt and change, constantly,
the perceptions of the realities around and within them. However, frustrations
and disappointments occur for many reasons, and not only, because these young
people are uable to realise dreams, ambitions and expectations.
Perhaps, the most poignant source of disillusionment comes in the realm of
personal contacts and the disappointment of relationships between friends.
In particular, if bonds of trust and loyalty are shattered, we see a severe
form of stress develop, because, as we have mentioned on previous occasions,
the persistence of some bonds of complete reliance, are the foundation for
the feelings of togetherness and security. These emotional bonds and feelings
arise well before the more intellectual alliances occur, and, therefore,
the bonds of trust and loyalty can be a source of immense strength and happiness,
but, they can also become a source of deep sorrow and despair.
There are many other ways our expectations can be shattered. We may feel
to have been treated unfairly or unjustly, in violation of an expected and
adhered-to code of conduct, or, we may feel to have been criticised unfairly;
that there has been an effort to smear our character and reputation, etc.,
etc. In short; we are continuously exposed to stressful situations where
expectations have not been met, and, collectively, all these experiences
allow us to develop a better grip upon the nature of man, ourselves, our
society, our dreams and ambitions.
As we grow older, our expectations are less often hurt or disappointed, because
we have learned to become more realistic. We have scaled-down our ambitions,
and, we have reduced the expectations about our fellow human beings. As a
shield of defense against getting hurt, there is a great temptation during
the later stages of adult life, to become quite cynical; to abandon all
expectations; to live simply for ourselves; to survive the best way we know
how, and, if we have abandoned a certain code of ethics, a moral stance,
or a measure of conviction about the way society should function, we are
in danger of becoming a social liability; a parasite, who usurps society
and uses his or her experience to extract the maximum possible benefits from
the social environment, without giving anything in return.
Unfortunately, such a cynical and socially degrading attitude is often
looked-upon as a sign of worldliness and "maturity", especially, in our chaotic,
affluent societies, which are laced with many shady and cynical business
activities, propagated and carried-out by millions of cynical adults, who
"rip-off" the system, because they have lost all long-term ideals and social
objectives. Their only goal is to survive, together with their family and
dependents. Sometimes, this ruthless, egocentric attitude is translated into
a financially exploitative attitude towards society, and, it may also manifest
itself in the form of a narrow-minded religiosity, where the only concern
has become to "save one's soul for eternity".
Certainly, there is a fine line between becoming more realistic and becoming
a negative, useless entity in society. True, the ambitious youngster, full
of ideals, may be just as egocentric or detrimental to society as the old
man, who has lost all ideals and hides behind a facade of worldliness and
an attitude of knowing it all. Nevertheless, it is possible that there is
still a quiet faith in the forces of "goodness", and, there may still be
the belief, that there is a need to be decent and honest in one's dealings
with other people.
Getting older is, in many ways, a chronically painful process, and, we should
not forget, that the shield of ambitions and long-term expectations is a
valuable aid in remaining flexible. Expectations and dreams make it possible
to take disappointments in stride, and, to look forward to the heights that
are still to come.
Once this quality of flexibility has disappeared, we can not dream, anymore,
about the glorious experiences we may still be looking forward to. Once we
realise, that we have reached the pinnacle of our career or social standing,
we can not dream, anymore, about the future, but we will be watching, with
varying degrees of anxiety, for the signs of "slipping"; of being displaced
by a younger competitor. Then, we know, it is going to be a down-hill slide
from now on, unless we have made adequate provisions in anticipation of the
decline of our professional performance and our financial earning
powers.
As we grow older, the possibilities for "becoming" are taken-away, one by
one. Each time we make a choice or a decision, we gain the possibility of
bringing a particular reality closer to fruition, but, at the same time,
alternative pathways of development are irrevocably lost. Once we have reached
the stage of late adulthood, even, before there is any evidence for a marked
decline in energy and powers, we realise, that our specialised function and
position in society are a reward and a security for the hard work we have
put-in before, but, at the same time, we are for society what we have become,
and, as soon as we lose our professional status or proficiency, we are really
of no interest to the rest of society.
Flexibility is gradually being lost, until we realise, that we should be
consolidating and protecting what we have. Then, it is possible to become
productive again, in spite of a long, steady decline. If we have allowed
ourselves to live a life-style that absorbs most of our earnings, we see,
clearly, that we have to maintain a fairly hectic and demanding pace of
performance in whatever we do, in order to sustain the required cash-flow
for our life-style.
Unfortunately, we equate, so easily, our life-style with a measure of social
success, and, then, we will consider any slowing-down in spending powers
to be a reflection of a declining social status. We become locked into an
affluent life-style, which prevents us, by and large, to make adequate provisions
for the time we may become ill and have to reduce our work-load. This strenuous
life-style tends to stifle our flexibility even more, as it becomes impossible
to contemplate a more satisfying, relaxing and educational work-environment
that is financially not as rewarding, but may give us a new lease on
life.
All these factors form, together, a fairly high level of stress, and, this
level of stress is manifested in the frequent temptation to find relaxation
in the pub, the club, the drink, or the "affair", straining marital relations
even further. Chronic stress has already a tendency to dull marital relations,
and the chronic frustration which the spouse of a hard-working, successful
professional is put under, tends to manifest itself, also, in an affluent
life-style of freely spending the monies that are flowing so easily into
the house-hold.
We all know about the many forms of chronic stress that are a hall-mark of
modern, affluent life, and, we have argued, on several occasions, how this
entrapment into an affluent life-style has been responsible for many
stress-related illnesses and behavioural escapades, as well as a chronic
lack of concern for the problems of the people around us, or, the plight
of the many hundreds of millions of people, who do not even earn enough money
to buy sufficient food. We have discussed, before, the pernicious consequences
of such a collective attitude of perverse introversion, and, we will not
discuss or lament these features again, because the reasons why people tend
to make the same mistakes, again and again, are quite clear for all those,
who care to look and think.
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Psychological adaptations to stress that are likely to occur at a more advanced age.
Accepting the inevitable decline in mental and physical powers.
When we are locked into fruitless anxieties.
Why depending on a high level of consumption is a weakness.
Appreciating the time we have left.
The crucial ability to anticipate future trends accurately.
A patient and rational aproach to the inevitability of our own life-cycle.
A natural insight of wisdom and resignation.
Stressful attempts to "overcome" our problems, rather than to accept death gracefully.
The lure of eternal happiness is bought at the price of a life-long anxiety, that we "may not make it".
When we misuse the faculties of fore-sight.
With every gain in viability, there are always potential liabilities.
The inevitability of death and the likelyhood of suffering are a natural result of our ability to construct a sophisticated and wide-ranging reality perception.
Everything becomes a burden for weak and degenerate minds.
The life-cycle of a social entity, or an entire species.
Let us now review, in general terms, the stresses and psychological adaptations
that take place with advancing age. The many anxieties raised by the impending
decline of physical and mental abilities, as well as the likely decline in
social status, slowly give-way to a measure of resignation as the latter
part of "middle-age" slides into "old-age". It is somewhat arbitrary to try
to define this transition in terms of age-limits or specific symptoms and
phenomena, and, even, if we could agree about a way to measure this transition
period, we still would see, that, psychologically, the transition would take
place at vastly different stages of the chronological age.
The over-riding characteristic of a healthy old-age, is the acceptance of
the inevitable decline in mental and physical powers, as well as the ability
to appreciate the opportunity for relaxation and reflection, which comes
with the relinquishing of a career, a job, a business, or some other position
or activity which has been the "end-stage" of a climb in the social
hierarchy.
If people fail to antiticipate this normal course of events, or, if they
live in a society that does not look well after its senior citizens, we see,
that the transition into retirement is, indeed, a period of anxiety and stress.
If society does not value its senior citizens, and, if advancing age is only
associated with neglect, as well as a loss of income and prestige, it is
logical, that people dread the time that they will be old.
There is, often, a marked drop in living standards, in particular, in the
affluent societies. This shows us, how a high standard of living, or, rather,
a high level of consumption, is a serious liability. It leads to the inability
to anticipate a more frugal life-style at a later age, and, it also leads,
so often, to entrapment, whenever one has settled into an environment, where
the basic costs of housing and food, including other necessities, are extremely
expensive; especially, when compared to global standards of affluence. Another
reason why a high level of consumption represents a weakness, is the inability
to "save" and prepare for old-age and retirement, which is aggravated by
the phenomenon of inflation, eroding any incentive to save for a rainy
day.
In short, it is not surprising, that, in many affluent societies, where a
high level of consumption is the norm, many people dread becoming old and
retired. Ironically, they suffer only mildly, compared to global standards,
since the income during old-age is, often, still quite substantial and provides,
as a rule, easily for the basic necessities.
When we get older, we should be able to appreciate, more clearly, the time
that is left to us, and, it is a sign of a mental depression, if we waste
our time with feelings of anxiety over the future, as well as feelings of
regret over chances missed in the past. If we have been able to adjust and
adapt, and, if we have correctly foreseen, what we really need and want with
advancing age, the relative freedom from stress, the freedom in time, together
with the accumulated experiences of a life-time, may create an atmosphere
of quiet wisdom and contentment during retirement.
Actually, we are discussing, here, one of the most essential features of
human existence, which goes out far beyond a simple adjustment to the problems
of advancing age. We see, here, a crucial faculty of the human mind, which
plays an essential role in man's ability to survive, either, individually,
or, collectively. This is the ability to project trends into the future from
what we see happening around us, today, and, to see the phenomena of today
as logical results of trends that began, and were experienced, in the
past.
The ability to see trends and happenings in a broad perspective, including
the ability to see what old-age will bring, gives us a much more realistic
anticipation of the events and happenings we are going to be confronted with
in the future. Certainly, the ability to rationally analyse likely trends,
together with the ability to see, that, we too, will inevitably get older,
probably, sick as well, and, that we have to die, often under highly unpleasant
or stressful conditions, is paid-for with the price of anxiety and apprehension.
The possibility to avoid a great many events of harm as the result of an
increased power of anticipation, is paid-for by the awareness of a great
many potentials for the occurrence of such events of harm.
We can adopt two different approaches to the increased awareness of the potential
for harmful events. The viable and sensible approach is to digest, calmly,
these insights; to study them carefully, and, to remain open to all possibilities
offered to minimise possible exposure to stress or unpleasant surprises.
Even, if we adopt such a patient and rational approach to the inevitability
of our own life-cycle, we may come to the conclusion, that many aspects of
it are unavoidable. Then, the art of acceptance and resignation comes into
play. We know, that we are getting older, and, we know, that we are likely
to contract a serious illness. We know, that, even the healthiest and luckiest
individuals eventually die.
Why fight this inevitability? Is it not possible to see the wisdom of nature in such a sequence of events? Is it so difficult to realise, that this cycle of birth, life, growth, decline and death, has made our own existence possible? Why, then, should we object to the fact, that, inevitably, the time will come, that, we, too, will have to pass-on?
This natural insight of wisdom and resignation does not even have to be supported
by religious hopes and promises. As a matter of fact, I believe, as I have
argued before, that religious beliefs are, often, a rather strenuous and
stressful attempt to "overcome", rather than accept, the inevitability of
death, as we see in the imagery of "eternal life". Let us stop and think
for a while, and, let us consider, how realistic such an imagery is in view
of our modern scientific insights, and, let us also review, calmly and
objectively, what sort of stresses and fears these religious promises and
reality perceptions bring with them.
It seems, that the lure of eternal happiness and salvation is bought at the
price of an intense, life-long anxiety, whether or not we will "make it".
Besides, such a strenuous emphasis upon personal salvation, together with
the conquest of death by an imagery of eternal after-life, tends to emphasise
a strongly egocentric orientation in our religious behaviour, in spite of
the fact, that the objectives of most religious teachings include a lessening
of this egocentric orientation.
However, this is an aside. Let us come back to the fact, that, rational analysis
of past experiences, as well as a clear perception of contemporary trends,
show us many ways of predicting, fairly accurately, what sort of circumstances
we are likely to encounter in the future. It also means, that we have to
be able to accept, realistically, the likelyhood, that many experiences in
our future are going to be stressful and unpleasant. True, it creates a feeling
of anxiety, thinking about future hardships, but, we solve nothing by suppressing
such thoughts and anticipations.
Suppression, means, a temporary suppression of the associated feelings of
anxiety and confusion, and, of course, what we really want is a cessation
of these feelings of anxiety. However, such a short-sighted and essentially
neurotic attitude is dearly paid-for. We become less able to anticipate,
correctly, what sort of situations we will have to cope with, and, an increased
number of "surprises" is going to interfere with our ability to cope and
adapt, and, eventually, it will jeopardise our ability to survive.
It is logical to see, that a deliberate "misuse" of our faculties of foresight,
leads to a loss in viability, because, after all, natural selection would
not have developed, and sharpened, the faculties of conscious insight and
accurate foresight, if it would not have been a successful tool in the struggle
for survival. For every gain in viability, there are always potential
liabilities, and, the criteria of viability are often characterised by this
precarious balance between advantages and disadvantages, which is associated
with the development of a particular possibility of existence.
The mental and intellectual tools of conscious thought and awareness have
led to an unprecedented enlargement of the sphere of concerns, and, these
awarenesses have given us the ability to see our personal and collective
history in a broad perspective. This broad perspective, together with the
precision of detail that comes with a detailed analysis of a more narrowly
focussed attention, has given us the possibility to come to a type of reality
perception that far surpasses the faculties of any other species.
This broad and firm grasp over the realities around us, is directly responsible
for the great manipulative powers we have acquired. No wonder, then, that
such a sophisticated reality perception has also led to a sophisticated way
of anticipating what is going to happen. This is the reason, why we have
become so much aware of the inevitability of death, as well as the likelyhood
of disease and decline with advancing age.
In a way, it is a sign of a softened and confused generation or social
environment, if the natural anxieties, associated with an increased level
of fore-sight, become such a burden, that anxieties and fore-sight are suppressed
together. This shows us, again, how fragile these faculties are, and, how
easily a generation, born in soft and affluent conditions, loses the insight,
that it has to continue contributing to the viability of its existence.
Everything bcomes a burden for weakened and degenerate generations; from
giving birth, to rearing children; from working and cleaning-up, to thinking
straight and anticipating realistically. Softened and degenerated generations
dream-away their time with idle and egocentric pursuits, while the viability
of social and individual existence, is dwindling.
Yet, we can interpret these events, also, in a broader perspective. It can
be interpreted as one more indication, that the society of man can be considered
a "living entity". If it is living, it will show the events of being born,
going through a period of vigorous childhood and adolescence, stagnation
in maturity, and decline in old-age.
Let us come back to the concepts of stress. Let us define stress for the
living organisation in more general terms, and, let us look, then, again,
at the question, what sort of relevance these concepts or phenomena have
for our ability to survive. We need to concern ourselves with the problems
of long-term survival, because man's manipulative abilities have interfered,
not only, with the balance of nature and the conditions of terrestial existence,
but, also, with the mechanisms of procreation. Manipulative abilities have
given us the "joys of sex", without the responsibility for offspring, but,
it has also given us the ability to commit suicide as a species.
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Chapter 8
Content
The ability to "flow" around obstacles.
The essence of "fluidity".
Sensory mechanisms.
For some forms of stress we have not developed "sensory capabilities".
The nature of a comfortable equilibrium.
We are exceedingly well-endowed with the potential of fore-sight.
The stimulus of "excitement".
When we are trapped by chronic pressures upon our well-being.
A review of the mechanisms of physical stress.
When we are "exposed", without protection, to environmental conditions.
Hypo-thermia and frost-bite.
Getting out of the way of stressful conditions and circumstances.
The different phases of stress-resistance.
Adaptations to long-term forms of stress.
Basic chores to maintain existence become ever more stressful at an advanced age.
Dying; seen in terms of stress and stress-resistance.
There is no clear-cut distinction between ageing and disease.
As we grow older, nearly all organs and functional systems are affected, to some extent, by one disease process or another.
Dying does not have to be a stressful event.
Dying on the battle-field.
When we have the fortunate ability to age gracefully, without severe regrets.
When we have a comfortable place of our own.
Living every day to the fullest.
A personal note.
Let us remind ourselves, that the living system is essentially fluid in nature,
and, that it has the ability to "flow around" obstacles. This means, that
it can avoid obstacles passively, such as a flow of water around a boulder,
or, it can avoid obstacles actively, e.g., when an animal searches for the
most advantageous ways to obtain its food. A "fluid system" has the advantage,
that it can avoid many forms of stress by flowing around it, or away from
it. A rigid and immobile system can not do this, and fluidity is, therefore,
a major factor in the adaptation to, or avoidance of, stress. As long as
the fluid, living organism can avoid physical contacts and collisions, (with
the help of general and special sense-organs) the fluidity and mobility of
an organism represent a great help in the adaptation to stress, but, as soon
as a living organism is "caught", and tries to resist stress with the strength
of its own body, the organism is at a great disadvantage, compared to a rigid,
inorganic system of existence.
We have seen, how the elaboration of sensory mechanisms leads, eventually,
in the human species, to the ability to form a conscious perception of reality;
with all the problems of anxieties, tensions and disappointments that are
inevitably associated with this faculty. However, let us not forget, that
the "purpose" of natural selection is to equip the organism, here, the human
being, with useful tools and viable behaviour-patterns. Indeed, the
"psychological", or sense-related mechanisms of perception, try to provide
the human being with an adequate basis of information to formulate the best
possible and most viable response under the circumstances, and, the conscious
perception of reality has become such an important "tool", that a large part
of our sense impressions is concerned with the deliberate adjustment of our
reality experiences.
However, there are still many influences that can affect our physical existence
without evoking a conscious awareness or response. For example, there are
numerous agents, such as microbial organisms and toxins, pollutants and other
harmful chemical substances, that can do their harmful work totally unnoticed.
We can only experience the symptons of some sort of an illness, and, it does
not take long, when reviewing the history of mankind, to appreciate, how
recently we have begun to "sense", or detect and unravel, many of these
mechanisms of interference and harm.
These mechanisms are also important incidences of stress, because they drive
an organism away from its optimum or comfortable equilibrium. However, we
are beginning to get a grip on these problems. With tools, we have been able
to enlarge the sphere of our reality perceptions beyond anything nature has
made possible before, and, we can now detect many of these forces, substances
or living organisms, before they do great harm. This allows us to devise
an evasive course of action; either, by getting-away from harmful agents,
or, by mounting a thorough clean-up and remove such dangers. We have learned
much about the way these agents do their harmful work, and, the art of medical
diagnosis and treatment has accomplished a great deal, and has been able
to minimise the damages to our body and mind, restoring, often, a state of
health, or, at least, a state of approximate normality.
The point we want to make, here, is the fact, that we are an organism that
is exceedingly well-endowed with the ability to see and recognise all sorts
of factors, happenings and events that may lead to harm, or, which may indicate
the possibility of harmful effects in the near future. Therefore, by far
the most important approach to the problems of stress, is the ability to
anticipate stress and avoid it. Yet, as we have seen, a state of constant
vigilance is already a form of chronic stress in itself, but, it is probably
the best example of the concept, that we need a certain amount of stress
to keep alert and in a good state of health.
Under normal conditions, where people have not been weakened by a long-standing
attitude of self-indulgence and the absence of useful forms of stress, we
see no difficulties in coping with this chronic stress of vigilance. Let
us not forget, that it is normal for healthy and confident people, especially,
when they are young, to actively search for the "excitement" and chronic
stress of anticipating and avoiding dangers. This keeps them active, keen
and alert, and, it sharpens their ability to foresee and cope with dangerous,
or potentially dangerous and stressful situations.
However, sooner or later, any living organism will be caught in a situation
of stress, where it can not completely avoid the stress by just moving out
of the way. Sooner or later, we are all caught into some sort of a trap.
Often, this is a trap of our own making, because we made a miscalculation,
or, we failed to recognise a harmful effect in time. Now, we are "paying
for it". It may, literally, be a question of "paying for it", if we lose
a certain amount of money on account of our failure to anticipate the outcome
of a business deal correctly.
However, the trap may be a chronic pressure from which we can not easily
escape. We may have done something wrong, and, we are trying to cover-up.
All these acts amount to a chronic stress, because we feel trapped. We feel,
that others could harm us by reporting what we have done, and, we try to
safeguard against such a development by finding-out wrong-doings or less
desirable facts about the people, who know about us. This type of entanglement
may take many forms and ranges all the way from criminal activities, which
are anxiously hidden from the law, to emotional entanglements between the
members of a tightly-knit family.
Stress can also be mainly physical. It can be an illness, due to a microbial
or viral invasion, or, the action of a poison. Or, it may be a rather sudden
mechanical stress, such as an accident, or, it may be a "chemical accident",
when we come suddenly into contact with a corrosive or caustic agent, or,
the horrible stress of thermal injuries, or burns.
In the actions of physical stress upon a living organism, we see an initial
"yielding" phase. If someone pulls a leg or an arm, we can, initially, give-way,
because of the elasticity of the tissues, or, because of the fact that we
could still move a litte ways into the direction of the force. Soon, however,
the stretch has been "used up", and the tissues start to resist a distorting
force. This is the most painful phase of stress, where resistance to the
distorting force is reaching a maximum, and, we experience excruciating pain;
to the point of physical and mental exhaustion, as we try, desperately, to
resist a further deformation of the body by the stressful force.
Of course, it does not have to be an actual mechanical deformation, as we
see in physical injuries, but, it may be due to the fact, that we have become
exposed to a hostile environment, and, we may have insufficient protection,
or means, to ward-off the harmful force of this environmental stress. For
example, if we camp-out in the open on a cool or freezing night, we will
suffer no ill-effects, as long as we have adequate protective clothing or
blankets to avoid a serious loss of heat. However, as soon as we lose this
protective cover, we are "exposed" to the serious stress of chronic heat
loss, and, it depends upon the circumstances, whether or not we can cope
with it.
If we are healthy and young, and, if we have enough food to keep our energies
up, and, if can find a place out of the wind; if we can huddle together or
stay around a small camp-fire, or, if we can keep moving to increase the
production of body heat, and, if the night is short and the sun will soon
warm us again, we may be able to resist this stress without ill effects.
However, if we are exhausted after a long climb, have lost our food or the
ability to make a fire, or, if we are lost and are not likely to be found
soon, we will quickly reach the end of our abilities to withstand the stress
of exposure. Some parts of the body will suffer frost-bite, or, we start
to feel sleepy, and we begin to "give-in" to a further cooling-off of the
body. Then, we are losing the battle against the stressful forces.
We give way, more and more, easing some of the pain, the anxiety, the exhaustion,
and the struggle that are associated with stress resistance, but, we are
also losing the battle for survival. Soon, we will slide into a situation,
where our body is not able to maintain the life-processes, because a severe
loss of body heat leads to cardiac irregularities, and, eventually, to a
cessation of the heart-beat. However, the extreme lowering of the body
temperature is also a protection against the damaging effects of a lack of
oxygen, and, this is the reason, why some people who have apparently been
frozen to death, may make a spectacular recovery, after their heart-beat
has been restored in hospital.
Let us not pursue, here, these fascinating stories, because we want to emphasise
the various phases of the experience of stress. We have seen, that the first
phase, which is the most important and most productive way of coping with
impending stress, is the avoidance of stress by seeking an alternative route,
pathway or mode of existence. etc. Especially, the behaviourally flexible
animals have developed the defense of "getting out of the way", or, "the
flight", as the result of nature's need to protect its living systems from
rapidly changing circumstances. Another example of "fluidity", is the ability
to switch to alternate sources of energy. Obviously, an animal species that
can use a wide range of foods is more likely to survive under fluctuating
circumstances compared to a species that has become dependent upon a highly
specific type of food.
The next phase of stress is the gradually mounting resistance to the stressful
force. This phase begins, as soon as the avoidance or yielding phase is not
available anymore, and the organism has been trapped into one or other stressful
situation. The stress may be mild and easily resisted, but, it may also become
life-threatening, where the organism is exhausting all its energies to resist
stress and avoid being "torn-apart". Finally, the breaking point is reached;
then, the organism gives-way again, but, now with the incurrence of some
sort of injury; with the loss of anatomical or functional integrity, which
is often fatal.
In the case of a bullet ripping through a part of the body, the phases of
building resistance, the breaking point, followed by the phase of "giving-way",
or tearing-apart, occur, of course, nearly simultaneously, within a minute
fraction of a second. The question, whether the sustained injuries are lethal
or not, depends on the site, the extent and the severity of the injuries,
as well as on the medical care given immediately after such an injury has
been sustained.
On the other hand, we see, that people, who have been imprisoned may be under
a relatively mild stress for a long period of time, but, at any time, something
may happen that increases the stress to the point that life is lost. A trifling
incident may lead to torture or arbitrary execution, if we are dealing with
an unscrupulous regime, but sometimes, psychologically clever adaptations,
as well as a keen eye for the possibilities of contact between captors and
captured, may make the circumstances bearable for the political prisoner
or the prisoner of war, as well as easier for those, who have the responsibility
of guarding these prisoners.
Let us return to the ageing individual, and, we see, that, indeed, the ability
of the body to withstand the stresses of daily existence, are diminishing
all the time. Eventually, the point is reached, where a series of disease
processes and degenerative physical changes, make it difficult to carry-out
"basic maintenance chores", such as getting-up and getting dressed, walking
down a flight of stairs, or, preparing a meal, cleaning a house, etc., etc.
All these chores may become so difficult, that they can not be carried-out
without help or special precautions to ease the stress of carrying-out the
necessary activities. Technical aids can be very helpful to ease the burdens
of looking after oneself, but, it is always possible, that the frailty of
body or mind progresses to the stage, that constant supervision becomes
necessary. However, many elderly people are fortunate, and, they will find
their death, before they have become so crippled or debilitated, that they
require permanent care in a hospital or nursing home.
The process of dying can also be defined in terms of stress and
stress-resistance. We have seen, how numerous factors may produce temporary
or permanent defects in the structure and function of the body, and, even,
if people escape most of the serious illnesses that can effect them throughout
their life-span, and, even if people are able to live a healthy, frugal and
regular life-style with its comforting routine, we still see, that the body
ages, and, that its resistance to stressful influences is constantly
diminishing.
There is no clear-cut distinction between the processes of ageing and disease,
since many diseases occur so slowly and insideously, that they may affect
our body without any awareness that they are taking place. For example, the
disease processes that are grouped-together under the term "hardening of
the ateries" occur, often, so gradually and so imperceptibly, that we may
be suffering from an advanced degree of arteriosclerosis without knowing
it, and, without having sought medical advice for any specific set of symptoms
or complaints.
As we grow older, nearly all the organs and functional systems are affected
to some extent by one disease process or another, but, just as is the case
with the moment of break-down in the family car, it will be the break-down
of a vital organ or function, which will usher-in the irreversible sequence
of death and decay, while many of the organs give, at least, the appearance,
that they could have lasted for a few more years.
Is death always a highly stressful event? Certainly not. If we are "taken-away",
when physically and mentally healthy, such as in an accident, on the
battle-fields, or, in another type of accident or specific disease process,
we do not feel ready to die, and, we are likely to struggle against the stress
that may be overwhelming us. Sometimes, the fatal injuries of a car accident
may come, instantenously, without any warning, and, perhaps, with an anticipation
that lasts only a fraction of a second. Then, there will be little time to
resist the injuries as they occur, and, it depends on the status of the body,
as well as the care it receives after the stressful factors have ceased to
exist, whether or not this particular organism will survive.
When fighting on the battle-fields, the situation is somewhat similar, and,
the actual moment of being hit by an explosion or machine-gun fire, is
unpredictable, and un-anticipated, but, throughout the period of fighting,
the individual has to adjust, mentally and physically, to the severe but
chronic stress involved in engaging in a battle. This stress is partly physical,
because war activities are often extremely tiring, but, at the same time,
this fatigue, together with the constant need to be highly alert in order
to survive, dulls, to some extent, the chronic anxieties and the realistic
anticipation, that it may all end suddenly, if a bullet or a shell happens
to make a direct hit on the location, where we happen to be.
If we have the good fortune to age gracefully, without severe regrets or
rancor, we may accept, also, with a measure of resignation the processes
of mental and physical decay as they happen to affect us, while enjoying
the fruits of fore-sight that enabled us to age in a well-protected environment.
If we have a comfortable place of our own, without chronic anxieties about
financial security; if we can live quietly in a way that agrees with us,
and conforms, at least, to some extent, to the ideals we have set for ourselves,
we are lucky, because we can, then, exist in a relaxed and healthy atmosphere.
Then, in spite of financial and physical limitations, and, in spite of the
fact, that it is impossible to begin a whole new career, such healthy and
relaxed people are often remarkably productive, in spite of their advancing
age.
Under such fortunate conditions of a healthy and comfortable "old-age", there
is no chronic stress to hamper productivity and there is no chronic doubt
about the missed chances of the past, or the unfulfilled dreams of the future.
Finally, life is being accepted as it presents itself from day today, and,
long-term ambitions have receded far-away and are being replaced with a quietly
tenacious resolution to live every day to the fullest.
For some people, like me, to live each day to the fullest, does not mean
to live a consumptive life, but, to use every day of health and vigour to
work at the tasks I have set for myself. Every day, I try to do my best,
and, every day, again, I try to write, correct, think, or compose, in the
best way I know. Certainly, even, this is not free from stress, as a keen
and alert mind can not help, but wonder, at times, whether or not all these
efforts are worthwhile; whether or not these writings will ever be of any
value to someone else. But, then, such stresses are so minor and the knowledge,
whether or not I will be of relevance to others, is so unimportant, that
I can laugh-off such worries as ridiculous.
Indeed, does it really matter, whether or not my works will find acceptance?
I am fortunate to be able to live a healthy life-style, almost entirely free
from stress, yet productive, and, hopefully, with enough self-criticisms
and tenacious endurance to do better and better. This means, that I am utilising
my limited abilities to withstand stress, to be useful and productive, in
the hope, that, at some time in the future, my works will be of some interest
to other people.
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Summary
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